My younger son and his very first girlfriend started very young. She was 15 and he was 14 They had a baby when she was 17 and he was 16, Yes I tried to keep them from doing this, I put him in christian boarding school. But he did have weekends off and school holidays off and she got pregnant & they had a son.Any way she wanted him out of the bording school so they could get marriedbut I wanted him to graduate high school first. They did get married when she was 20 and he was 19. They had another son.Who passed away at 13 days before his 2rd birthday due to pneumonya. They divorced soon after. She has remarried and won't let me see my grandson and neither can my son. My son could if he could afford a lawyer but he has child support and another daughter by his next marriage.I was told by someone who used to be her friend but is no longer her friend because she bragged to this friend that she has turned my grandson against me as well and he hates me. I saw him and he turned his head.
2006-11-29 15:56:52 · 5 answers · asked by Pamela V 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He wouldn't even speak to me. I cried when I got home. She took him away 7 years ago. I am better now but sense seeing him again The hurt is starting to reserface. She even heald it against me when she heard that I had to go on antidepression medication.And said she'd use it in court to keep him away from me. I was on Medication to help me through the tough time of missing my grandson.
2006-11-29 16:00:47 · update #1
I am a christian. I know that one of these days she will sew what she reaps but I don't want her or anyone to feel this kind of pain. I am still happy when ever I see her I loved her a lot and I was a very good mother-in-law to her.I gave her good advice and she knew sh could always come to me even now! With g as my witness that is the truth!
2006-11-30 01:22:00 · update #2
I am a christian. I know that one of these days she will sew what she reaps but I don't want her or anyone to feel this kind of pain. I am still happy when ever I see her I loved her a lot and I was a very good mother-in-law to her.I gave her good advice and she knew sh could always come to me even now! With g as my witness that is the truth!
2006-11-30 01:22:02 · update #3
There are grandparent rights. Check and see if they have them in your state. If they do, she can NOT keep him from seeing you. I would get your local church together and raise money for a lawyer so you can beat her at her own game. She is an evil woman. Some day, this will come back to haunt her.
Just keep praying (if you are that type of person) and hopefully, someday, something good will come of this...he will want to see you, talk to you and he will want to know about his past. I'm sorry to hear about the way things happened. It's very unfortunate. I hope things work out for the best. Good luck...
2006-11-29 19:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It won't
but you can draw a fly quicker with honey than with vinegar.
In other words, through Love and kindness you will draw your family.
Because you are a momma, your feelings are hurt, but remember what the mothers of old would do.
They would kill a person with kindness. If you do that, you'll have your complete family back.
What you are now going through is temporal. It may take a minute or two, but this will pass away.
No matter how hateful the situation is, remember your goal, your grandson. Don't quite until the fat lady sings(loving your family)
2006-11-29 16:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by mapleavenue456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so hard to watch our children make mistakes and then not only do they suffer from it but we as parents do too. I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. Just don't stop loving your grandson and know that one day the truth will come out. I don't know your faith, but I would say just pray for them, your grandson and his mother. (and your son and his new family.) Pray that her heart is soften. And then when she comes to you, welcome her and your grandson with open arms.
2006-11-29 16:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by hazyseptember 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a evil woman, sorry for your hurt ask GOD to change your grandson's heart.......your son has rights also since he is paying child support..hope all will be fine, in time...
2006-11-29 16:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME STATES HAVE GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS SO CHECK INTO IT. WHEN HE GETS OLDER HE WILL HAVE ALOT OF UNANSWERED QUESTIONS AND WANT TO FIND YOU SO JUST WAIT BECAUSE TIME DOES SOLVE SOMETHINGS.
2006-11-29 16:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by BASHFUL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋