Lets see who can be honest and forthright! I think it is women who think about it more than men, yet most people think it is men who think about it more than women. What is the census? Be honest!
2006-11-29 15:53:12 · 14 answers · asked by hookiejr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think men think about it more, but women aren;t slouches in that catagory
2006-11-29 15:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
What causes a guy to cheat. I continuously idea adult males and woman have thoroughly diverse reason yet because got here across this isn't genuine that is for an same causes. an same causes are, they don't experience loved ninety% of the time, choose better sex those 5 % of the time and numerous for the different 5 %.
2016-10-07 23:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can be either one not any particular gender. Motivation could be many factors which neither are proper in my eye. If you want to cheat on a partner then it's x to break up with them but; many want their cake & eat it to. I can only speculate as to why people cheat, they get bored with their partner, mental illness's (can contribute to it), a parnter being impotent. I agree with you it's always been the man with the reputation of cheating but; it takes to to tango. Their seems to be & increase of just as many women cheating as men this day & time. I can't & wouldn't be able to give you a census on this! I think people should try counsling if they have prob.'s with cheating as this can often have a need to validate themselves from something in their childhood .KAT
2006-11-29 16:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by KAT 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, back in the day I would have said just men, but in today's society women are getting just as bad as men. I think that it's a natural aspect for men to think about other women, it's their hormones that make them act like that. Women have hormones that get them going as well, especially if they are really attractive to someone, but it's just the principle of morals and values that determine geniune loyalty. I think women are so use to feeling dirty and shameful towards thinking sexually about other men, that they try to repress the desires and it ends up backfiring on them. Also, women are more confident with expressing who they are today in our society, and are very much tired of double standards. Regardless, cheating is wrong. Women who cheat feel like they have been missing out on something, been deprived of something by their mates, and possibly just need another's attention to feel good about them selves. Then some women just don't care about being fatithful, they just want freedom to explore their options. So in today's society, I think women think about cheating as much as men.
2006-11-29 16:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think that sex has anything to do with it...I think that it has everything to do with character and moral upbringing. I think that if you are lacking in character that you are more susceptible to cheat.
Having said that, you think that women think about it more. I don't think that they actually fantasise about the sex, I think that they fantasize more about feeling...important, sexy, beautiful...and having someone validate those feelings for them, after being in amonogamous relationship, they probably begin to fantasize about more of an romantic emotional affair than the actual sex...
Men, howeve, I think begin to fantasize about kinky hot sweaty sex after years of routine. Men today are led to believe that if they aren't having porno quality sex that they are missing out on something, and that is the sex that you should be having. Well, you stay in a momogamous relation long enough, and you just aren't going at it like dogs after awhile...
Ultimatley, it is up to both parties in a marraige to sustain the romance/sexuality levels so that both parties are happy. Men, make your wmen feel like they are sexy goddesses and they are the epitome of your fantasies. Women, make your men feel like they are the hottest thing in the sack that you have ever had. Those are the some of the keys to monogamy.
2006-11-29 16:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by The Nag 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think both do, but when women cheat they are much smarter than us men! Men let their guards down and find it difficult to lie but women on the otherhand, well they're smart creatures, that's why they find out!!
2006-11-29 15:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dating and economics are related. Supply and demand. I think it's the same in both sexes. And why do they do it? It is because the other person is better in their mind, then the one that they are currently with. It's like this, you get a better job, and make more $. Would you keep the same piece of crap car, or would you buy a nicer one? Think about it. It's like this getting a better job is like losing weight, and looking better or just finding a better guy/girl. It's an analogy
2006-11-29 16:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think that both genders think about it more than they should but I believe that men think about it the most because they allow the wrong head to control their minds.
2006-11-29 15:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women, because they're never satisfied, always looking for the "perfect man", always wanting more from the one they have. To men sex is usually only about sex, but to women sex is about sex and power and material possessions, so they have more excuses they can make up for cheating.
2006-11-29 15:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
men do and think it more often. women who doesn't feel appreciated or their mate doesn't tell them how pretty and sexy they are is going to start to think of cheating to make themselves feel better..that's my opinion though
2006-11-29 15:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋