This guy I like, who probably knows I like him as well, has been really quiet around me lately. We talk online, were we met since he lives in Georgia. We talk about everything from vid games to relatioships and how we are waiting for "the one".
He can be the real talker and charm me up with his storys and new interesting facts. But lately, we usually just say hi, and a few words here or there. I know it might sound stupid, but I like him very much. He seems to like me too. He tells me Im beautiful and things like that and then gets really quiet.
Hes a "nerd" if you do labels and such. I personally dont care, I find it quite attractive. But hes never had a gf, so maybe he doesnt know what to do in these cases? Neither have I had a bf so Im kinda lost.
2006-11-29 15:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by Broken ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes mentioned before the fact that he could visit me anytime and we write letters to eachother regularly.
2006-11-29 16:03:46 · update #1
yes i agree with the other answer ask him or at the very least tell him where you stand,even thought the guy traditionally asks it is the new generation and some guys just dont know how.or also fear rejection..i hate asking people out its tough to know what to say and evryone isnt so easy about whether you sound""nerdy""or not good luck
2006-11-29 15:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by getbyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not talk to you as much because you have a relationship that only exists online (possibly phone).
He could be too busy to talk to you, he could have an interest for a girl he sees in school. He could also be pulling away because he may not want to get stronger feelings for you because you probably cant see each other in person, so that really takes a lot out of it. Him being a nerd probably doesnt have anything to do with it.
2006-11-30 00:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've never actually met this person, right?
Here's a tip: it's impossible to love someone who you've never met. What you're having is a really detailed fantasy.
Sounds like this "guy" is just playing you for fun. Or maybe he has it bad for you, and is just too shy to say so. But that ain't the problem. The problem is, you need to step away from the computer and go find a real human to talk with.
2006-11-29 23:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think it has to do with him never has a GF before to cause him to be quiet.
I guess since he already knows you like him and all, he might try to pull himself away. Cause? He probably freaks and doesn't know what the h-e-l-l he wants to do with the situation. Some people feel that they are ready for a relationship, but once one comes along, they start having self-doubt. I might be wrong.
2006-11-29 23:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is just very shy and it is difficult for him to come up with topics of conversation. You may need to begin initiating a conversation and keep it going, until he comes out of his shyness and becomes more comfortable with you. Also, have you tried to tell him how you feel? He may be beginning to have feelings for you, and feels awkward and unable to tell you. So you be the first to let him know and break the ice. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-29 23:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have gone throught the same thing b4. i cannot tell you why it is happening but in my case he was scared. he liked me and i liked him we both knew it but he told me that when things get serious he runs. we started out talking on the phone (how we met) and i grew to like him, then we started to see eachother in person and it was fine for awhile, but then he got scared and started calling less and didnt say much on the phone. now he moved back home to florida and we barely talk anymore. if u want to talk about it let me know i will talk to you about it and try to help you if possible.
2006-11-30 00:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by frizzy_ghost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him too much! Pull back, girlfriend. He can't handle the push. Boys are more immature that girls. Go after someone much older than you. It is better to be an old man's sweetheart, than a young mans slave.
2006-11-29 23:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by tattletale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means he does not have much experience about the whole "liking" thing. a lot of guys act weird anyway, because probably something bad happened . try to find out.
2006-11-29 23:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by gaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since this will be ur first boyfriend i say you go out wit the guy test it out and if you have any more problems ask one of ur closest friends who's had a bf before and ask them for advice
2006-11-29 23:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by falawoods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds pretty similar to the gal i'm talking with...online...
Sometimes i think she dosen't like me...maybe the same in your case
2006-11-29 23:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Evans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋