i slept with this guy and afterwards he was asking me how he did. and what part of it did i like the most. i just said "perfect" i didn't even ask that question. did it seem like his ego was hurt that i wasn't at all interested in answering his questions? what response/ actions do your girls say/ do if they enjoyed it?
2006-11-29 15:51:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hate when guys ask that! it is like the male version of "do i look fat in this outfit?" ... neither of us really wants the truthful answer to the question, so we should probably all stop asking lol
2006-11-29 16:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ego aside he may have been asking in an attempt to improve his technique or maybe just wanting to know what you may have enjoyed. It is kind of a good thing if you think about it ,he felt comfortable enough with you to talk to you about it. Feedback is a good thing for you it will get you more of what you like and you can also think of it as a service to "womankind" .If he improves his technique there may be more orgasms than there might have been otherwise.And with the Holidays upon us Remember** Every time a woman has an orgasm an angel gets his wings,
2006-11-30 00:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes .... he was looking for a stroke of the ego..... He is learning and needs the reassurance to know he's doing the right thing the right way ....... Just tell him he's the best (even if he's not) .....and sit back and watch his hat shrink !
Good Luck with the newbie !
2006-11-29 23:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I am not a guy but I can answer the question for you he wanted to know how he performed and you skirted around it. If it was good you should tell him it is good and if it was mediocre you should explain why men are not wired the way we are and they will always come one way or the other but if he is asking how he can please you then tell him nicely and dont hurt his feelings but tell him what you want.
2006-11-29 23:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think it would be an awkward situation if i was expected to rate someone after having sex, maybe he is very inexperienced , think he should learn is not a question that should be asked right after , actually don't think that question should be asked unless you are prepared to hear the perhaps ugly truth.
2006-11-30 00:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by haa haa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just looking for reassurance cuz....boys want to know if they're doing something wrong and what not. I don't think what you said was bad, I just think he wanted details. But it's hard trying to figure out answers so.......
2006-11-29 23:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by celticangel72986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it sounds like hes insecure about him self that's just not a question you ask the girl if he is good you wont need too ask it will show in the girl acion
2006-11-30 00:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay with this guy, always praise his performance and say it was the best ever even if it was the worse.
2006-11-29 23:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy has to ask, then he didn't preform. If he was any good, your physical response would of told volumes.
2006-11-29 23:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by timberland1952 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for your partner to ask if they did " ok" but sometimes speechless is ok 2.....but in case your not speechless?...try a little more elaboration next time...lol.
2006-11-29 23:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋