weve been dating for almost 2 years now and up to now, i really dont know the real score of our relationship.and now im lost and i have no assurance what kind of relationship we have now.
2006-11-29 15:49:38 · 9 answers · asked by Loren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you a helpless piece of driftwood?
You are HALF of this "relationship" speak up.
2006-11-29 15:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, guys aren't as verbal, so there may be feelings that aren't expressed in words.
Women expect to hear it more.
If you really have doubts, the best way is to site down and ask him how he feels about you. Understand that it will probably seem accusatory to him. (Most of the time when women want to "talk" they really mean, "I want to bust your balls".)
Decide what's important to you in advance. Write the questions down. Ask them - but don't demand an immediate answer. Just tell him you want to give him some time to think about it, and would like to sit down and discuss the matter again in a couple of days.
That takes the pressure off him, gives him time to really decide what he's feeling and doesn't make him feel blind-sided.
Go from there.
2006-11-29 15:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? How old is he? Why is there a score? It's not some kind of game is it? Is he gay? Do u have an open relationship? There r 2 many unanswered q's to answer urs
2006-11-29 15:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well two years is indeed a long time more than most marriages last lol. but thats beside the point. you need to sit him down and talk to him and ask him where your relationship is headed. but do not pressure him because then he might freak out. tell him your're feeling unsure of the relationship and you need reassurance. that you really love him and want to be sure he loves you as much. hope it goes well.
2006-11-29 15:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. have you ASKED?
hey dude, what are we? is this going somewhere? because, like, I'm kind of into you, and before I fall too far I need to find out where your head's at. Am I just a hot lay and a good date, or are you ready to be serious?
Try that.
2006-11-29 15:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK him for crying out loud!!! I would never ever let a guy think I was his for 2 years and not know how he felt about me??!!
2006-11-29 15:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i call that just a major fling friendship out of convenience,and no direction whatsoever
2006-11-29 15:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-29 15:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none.
you are friends with benefits as the saying goes.
2006-11-29 15:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋