Should I talk to my ex...?

Question

After 8 months, I saw my ex boyfriend at the university campus that we both attend. He seemed REALLY happy to see me, he was smiling and looking deeply into my eyes, he kept asking me all these questions. I kinda seemed annoyed. At the end of the conversation, he said "give me a shoutout and we can do something", & I just looked at him, and he said "yeah we can see a movie together or anything you want", I just said bye and walked away. He was the one who dumped me 8 months ago. HE was the one who dumped me. But he would still say hi to me on msn but he doesn’t say hi that much anymore.We never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. Since that day on school, he hasn’t tried to contact me, even on msn just to say hi, so does that mean that all his happiness & “let’s see a movie” was fake? I would NEVER ask him out, but do u think he will ever ask me to hang out with him?
He's online on msn now, shoudl I talk to him?

We only dated for a month and it never went past kissing cuz he knew that i wanna save sex for marriage.

Answer 1

Be friends. It didn't work out and you moved on and so did he. Don't put your heart out there again for him to step on, but never let him think that he crushed you either. Try to get past it and just know that he was Mr. Wrong for you. You shouldn't ask him out but talk on line with him and just be kind. You know girl...kindness kills. I think that he'll probably kick himself when he realizes that he let you go. Good Luck.

Answer 2

He did the work by telling you, he'll do whatever you want whenever you want. An ex did this with me... he is just making it easier on himself.... instead of asking you out and facing rejection... you were being cold.... he put it in your hands. And since he said hang out, not a date, it is a safe way to not get hurt if nothing pursues. So just say hey, i'm free ____day, do you wanna c a movie? (msn) he'll say sure or if he's busy how about _______day. Just c what happens, he did tell you to talk to him. With the ex i'm referring to, we "hung out" every time before we got back together. It's safe for both of you bc hanging out as friends, something more? and then more can happen and once you kiss again, ur on ur way to being back together.
Good luck and u have asked this question a lot over the last couple of months. JUST Do IT! it's annoying.

Answer 3

My answer would be NO! I mean, becuase it sounds like you dont even care about this guy much, so why is it really important if he was in your life or not? Also, you need to find someone that understands you, and respects your decision to save yourself for marrige.

Answer 4

I say figure out what he is up to and why he wants to hang out....for fyi or reference point that can be used in future relationships

Answer 5

I think he was faking the invite. If he really wants to see you on your level; he would still be dating you.

Answer 6

come on.... you keep asking the same question.

Forget it. Delete him from your msn. I am sure he isn't thinking about you and you are obcessed with him.

Let it go girl

Answer 7

so why are you still bothered by his invitations and his "hi's"?do you still love him?if he dumped you,dump him too.i think he's just playing games with you.and he's only satisfying his ego,he thinks you still like him.or he hasn't found someone else yet:?

Answer 8

Yeah- talk to him (on-line) ask him why he now wants to be friends when he didn't seem to want to before.

Answer 9

I think he only wants you as a friend so treat him as a friend

Answer 10

Go for it...!
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