What should i do?
i have a boyfriend that i love but there is this other guy who is my best friend,and has been for a long time. at one point we did date. and im starting to have feelings for him again. i have known him for 6 years and i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year known him for about 2 years what should i do? do i tell my boy friend? wat do i tell him? should i talk to my friend about how i feel? wat should i say? please help me!
2006-11-29 15:46:11 · 9 answers · asked by D-Lo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't be asking this question.
2006-11-29 15:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa. You need to spend some non-romantic time with your best friend. Maybe what you're missing is just spending some time with your friend (when you have a boyfriend and your best friend is also a boy, your time with the best friend can often be compromised). You may change your mind again after spending time with the best friend. A one-year relationship is something special, so just don't go jeopardizing 2 important relationships on a sudden feeling, dear.
2006-11-29 15:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by jaded1004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my boyfriend was still hanging around his ex i would have left him along time ago, he deserves the truth so just tell him the truth weather he likes it or not he should know that his girlfriend has feelings for her ex how would you feel if he had feelings for his ex wouldn't you want to know the truth. sorry if i seem a bit harsh. good luck i dont know why you reported me you wanted my oppinion and i told you sorry if i offended you
2006-11-29 15:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND. AND LET HIM KNOW WHAT GOING ON.BUT SINCE YOU BEEN
WITH HIM FOR A YEAR WHY ARE YOU SPENTING TIME
WITH SOMEONE ELSE. REGARDLESS OF WHAT THE
REALTIONSHIP. BUT IF YOU ARE HAVE FEELING FOR SOME
ONE ELSE THEN TIME TO LET THE BOY FRIEND GO BUT
BE WARE OF THINGS THEY SAY THE GRASS IS NOT
ALWAY SO GREEN ON THE OTHER SIDE.
2006-11-29 15:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boyfriend and explain to him the situation and talk to your bestriend too, you must really think hard on whom you would really risk everything for, for example if you had to save the both of them in an accident and you can only choose one to save whom would it be, your boyfren or your bestfriend, the one you cant live without is the one you love, and the one you love is the one you must go for
2006-11-29 15:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know how you feel (kinda in the same situation as you) and....as hard as it seems I think you should just be honest with the both of them, and most of all, be honest to yourself.
2006-11-29 15:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by celticangel72986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok yes u do have a dilemma ...but u should think about it before u Tell eather one make sure u know the answer because u will lose one of them
2006-11-29 15:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay wit ur boyfriend because its wrong to break up wit him 4 ur friend so my advice to you is just wait until u break up then make a move on ur friend.
2006-11-29 15:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by falawoods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
acc. to me u must test them first
2006-11-29 15:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by U.O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋