i have been in a relation for almost 2 years, ever since we hooked up evrything has been the same, same o' same. Nothing has changed and i want something else, something new! I feel like im missing something, dont get me wrong. i do like her a lot. She is just the shyest girl i have been with..
2006-11-29 15:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by IDK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so? if you love a person, you will learn to accept who she is. If it's not enough for you to have her, tell her frankly so that she won't be surprised that you'll just leave her one day. If she's not doing something to make the relationship more exciting, make the first move so that she will have an idea and follow you. In a relationship, try no to be selfish so that you can feel contented. Just give and give without expecting something in return. It might surprise you one day that she's giving and showing you more than you do. I did that to my boyfriend and it worked. I can feel that he loves me more than I loved him before.
2006-11-29 16:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by gelize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try introducing her to new things? Talk to her and tell her that your relationship is boring (of course in a nice way). Explain to her that its driving a wedge between you two and something has to change in order for you to remain in this relationship. If that doesn't make her want to spice things up then maybe you should explore.
2006-11-29 23:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you feel like something is missing then she isn't right for you. When you meet the right person everything feels like it fits you feel content. Move on and break up with her. If you just like her then your just wasting your time in a relationship that isn't going anywhere.I hope you find what your looking for in someone. Good luck.
2006-11-29 23:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marcos, Marcos, Marcos tell her that her shyness is causing you to look somewhere else and you dont want to hurt her but things have just gotta change
2006-11-29 23:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it, or nothing will get done. if you've been in a relationship for 2 years, dumping her might not be the best consideration if you don't have to.
2006-11-29 23:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage her more, show her the world is brighter and it wants her as a star.
2006-11-29 23:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Fairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you will have to tell her this so that she can help change. maybe she feels the same
2006-11-29 23:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by sumer h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a move! lol or ask her if shes ready to take your relationship to the next level! =]
2006-11-29 23:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TALK TO HER ABOUT SPICE UP THE ROMANCE
SINCE YOU HAVE BEEN WITH 2 YEARS. IT SHOULD NOT
BE THAT HARD TO DO.
2006-11-29 23:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stay in a rut? try something new already instead of talking about it.
2006-11-29 23:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by squatch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋