Well this guy I havent been able to get over. During the summer we met and he asked me out on our first date then we went on a couple more. From the moment he met me he knew I had a child. So anyways then after like 3 weeks seeing each other we had sex, then like 2 months later he told me that we should just be friends b/c he was still in love with ex. For me not to think that he wanted to give up sex but this was his position, like we were never formal b/f and g/f and you know sucks I guess, I still havent gotten over the guy.
2006-11-29 15:44:10 · 11 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can dont have sex with a guy they respect women who dont give it up easily . He got what he wanted it was fun while it lasted, and now he's going back to his girlfriend, not, he only said that to make you jealous and for you to move on. Summer love is not always safe. Yes you have a child but what does that mean, you got pregnant? Men have sterotypes about women who have kids their easy and you know what not making him wait just confirmed it. Hes not worth it move on ..... Next time if you decide to have sex guard your emotions.... Good luck
2006-11-29 15:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do guys do that? No...why do girls do this? I'm going to be completely honest with you, because you need to hear it. If you want someone to truly learn to care for you, it takes time to let them get to know you (and vice versa). You should not have had sex after only 3 weeks, & expect love. It does not sound like this has anything to do with you having a child. It has to do with not allowing time for emotional connections before physical connections.
2006-11-29 23:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just that way i guess.You could give him the benefit of the doubt and say maybe he thought he was getting over his ex and wanted to try for another relationship but realized he was just not ready so he wanted to end it with you before it went any further.I wish i knew exactly what happened on his end but only he knows that for sure.
2006-11-29 23:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand, but its just nature i guess...wrong things at good times happen. Try forgetting him and invove more time with ur kids.
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2006-11-29 23:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get over the bum...he used you.
2006-11-29 23:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
srry for ya !! it will get better good luck...
2006-11-29 23:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are like that... you should choose the guys more wisely!
2006-11-29 23:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should always wait !!!!!!!!!!!! please so you won' be so upset about this i know its hard that what happen when we hurry up things !!!!
2006-11-29 23:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋