I'm trying to improve my status with a couple of girls and I think it is in my best interst to liven up our conversations a bit. What kind of things should I focus on? I've heard that focusing on the emotional aspect of subjects as opposed to the concrete, informational side appeals to women. Go ahead and show me what you got, purty ladies.
2006-11-29 15:38:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen to what they talk about...even listen to what they talk about in the stores...you will find a topic_
2006-11-29 15:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to liven up your conversations talk about politics or religion. it might not be what you want to hear but it will certainly be lively. personally i like to discuss many different subjects and both the emotional and informational sides. i don't get overly emotional but i am passionate about my beliefs but i also recognize that others have theirs too and i can hold my own so to speak. i feel that even if you disagree with someone you can still have a great debate and most times you learn something in the process either about the person, the subject or yourself.
2006-11-29 23:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I do like to talk about me, and explain a little bit about my self, I like people to know the way I am. that I am a very happy girl and that I interested about what other people likes no just about my self, OK let's said that we meet and no only you want to have good conversation you want to impress me well first you can talk to me about everything but you need to be honest and real, don't just try to be something your not, and make sure that if you just looking for sex let that person know what are you up to, you might be lucky and no waste her time with make up stories and if you looking for a friend also let her know and if you looking for something serious then also let her know not all the girls look for a boyfriend some are looking for a buddy and a good friend to hug up to go out with. most of all be your self...
2006-11-30 00:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by sunsetsin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself. I know, uber shallow, but it's true in many cases. We like to talk about what we know best. Obviously, I know myself very well. Try to find out some basic things about these girls (i.e. likes/dislikes, hobbies, philosophies, etc.). Then, when you converse with them, you can open up the subjects for deeper discussion.
2006-11-29 23:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by jaded1004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love talking about the future. What his goals in life are.. what he wants to do. I'm a Christian, so I also like to discuss the bible, and find out his beliefs... I love hearing his thoughts and opinions on everything.. from silly things like peanut butter to more serious issues like politics
2006-11-29 23:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by wolfgirl1987 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have enough interests in common and that would liven up your conversation.
2006-11-29 23:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by desertflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's conversing not conversating. anyway, anything interesting start with like the weather the news then go towards what she likes and what you like. then figure it out!
2006-11-29 23:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya deffinetly more emotional stuff, girls like it when you open up to them. They basically just like to talk about life!
2006-11-29 23:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by shelly s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. How about:
"How much money are you going to spend on me?"
"What are you going to give me?"
"Aren't I beautiful?"
"What can you do for me?"
Actually, chicks don't want you to talk. They just want you to act like you're listening. See, the worst thing in the world you can do is solve a chick's problem. She doesn't want solutions - she just wants someone to see things her way. Guys are about solutions and decisive action. Women are about reaching consensus and empathy.
2006-11-29 23:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well go with things you think is right... i mean you could talk to them about feelings and whatnot but you could go back to the basics... like favorite music? or... favorite place to visit or travel to... do what you think is better
2006-11-29 23:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋