How do I get a girlfriend?

Question

OK ill be extremely honest. Im freakin 16 and haven't even been kissed yet (damn i suck.) I see girls all around and don't have the courage to say anything. I have no idea what to say. I also must say that im not exactly the best-looking person in the world. But ppl say im cool. Do girls look for the looks or something else?

Answer 1

Don't act too "Rico Suave"!! That is the worst!!! Don't talk about yourself unless she asks, and even when she asks keep it short. Make her keep guessing...that will make her want more!! but don't play hard to get or like your rich or anything like that because that is such a TURN OFF!!!! I can't speak for all girls but i like i guy that is a real man and is not afraid to be himself and always remember one thing...a girl can always tell when you are trying to hard or if you are being someone that you are not!!! Try myspace!!! seriosuly....i have gone out with like 5 guys from myspace its cool!!!

P.S KISSING IS ONLY ENJOYABLE IF THE PERSON YOU ARE KISSING YOU REALLY LIKE!! IF YOU KISS SOMEONE THAT YOU DON'T REALLY KNOW....ITS GROSS!!!

Answer 2

hey, stop stressing about the whole thing ok. take it easy and just go with the flow. ur time will come. Im gonna be honest with you, im 18 and i had my first girlfriend when i was ur age. i am not the best looking guy but im doing great!! Dont worry if u dont know what to say. we all go through that. its normal. its because u havent done it that u r nervous. girls ur age sometimes go for the "looks" first but dont worry. all u need is to b yourself.n trust me, there is a girl for u. here are some suggestions:
1. Always dress 2 impress so girls will be attracted to u.
2. Always be nice to girls n b NICER to the girl u like.
3. If there is a specific girl that u like, talk to her. u can start a conversation about anythin. let her know how u feel about her by telling her nice things about the way she looks ( hair, the way she dress). anything. COMPLIMENts are important.

hope this helps! if u want more help about somethin more specific just write me an email.

Answer 3

Get involved in stuff around school, you do go to school right?
Then you say hi to girls for a start. C'mon you gotta get that courage eventually, or you're never gonna get anything. Sitting tight just gets you all the hos.

Answer 4

alright...your FIRST problem is that you have no self confidence..it needs to go WAY up...im sure your a great guy and have nothing to worry about..ALSO...don't worry about the kiss thing cause i had my first kiss when i was like 16 or 17...and im doing GREAT!! so don't worry about that...just stop being so hard on yourself and just talk to girls...you don't need to say anything crazy...just say something, and work your way up

Answer 5

Start with the girls in your class... Ask her to lend you her notes. That is how I get my girlfriend.

Have some confident man!! I saw ugly guys with beautiful girls all the time.

Oh! By the way, don't rush yourself! Take time... My first date was when I was 19.

Answer 6

looks are nice. but if you want the right kind of girl, your gonna want to let them have the insides of you. and dont rush the whole kissing thing. im only 15 and i have yet to be kissed too

Answer 7

next time you see a girl that you like start a conversation and see if shes nice. if shes not dont deal with her anymore. and as far as not kissing anyone, you need to find the right person first.

Answer 8

if in school ask one of them for help with studies, or talk about things in common likes, dislikes. You need to get over that shyness girls have it too. Girls like guys who are thoughtful sweet and kind.

Answer 9

I had my first girlfriend and kiss when I was 11-12 I can't remember exactly.

Don't WORRY about it. BE YOURSELF and you will find someone.

Answer 10

say hay whats up and see what happens but remember you have to start the conversation

good luck