How can I get a boyfriend??!!?

Question

I have never had a boyfriend before which is sad because i am already 14, and all my friends have had at least two. A lot of people say im pretty but people just havnt asked me out? what can I do? I dont want to ask them out myself if thats what you thinking. : (

Answer 1

Take heed! You can be ahead of them in life by focusing on the really important stuff with no distraction from a boyfriend. You'll have plenty of time to get one later when you're more mature and ready for it anyway.

Answer 2

I know many people who never got a boyfriend or girlfriend until they were 17 or older. I myself have not had a boyfriend yet. Don't worry about having a boyfriend, it will happen, often when you least expect it to. The advice I can give to you is to just be yourself. Boys will notice that you are genuine and I've heard that's one of the greatest qualities they like in a girl.

Being single is great. You get to have unlimited flirting and dont have to worry about being tied to someone. Dealing with all that heartbreak at the end must be terrible. Yes, I'm sure that having a boyfriend is wonderful, but being single has its pro's too. Lastly, you are only 14, you have plenty of time to find that special someone.

Don't worry about it, he will come along eventually.

Answer 3

So, you're 14 and that's official age to get a boyfriend. Some of your friends have already had two? Did they care about their boyfriend or did they just throw them away like tissues?

Let me make one thing clear: It does NOT matter how many boyfriends you've had. Quality over quanity. If there is a guy you actually like, you know they're a decent person, and such then go for---ask them yourself! Go for the goal, ya' know? But don't just get a boyfriend because you're friends have had or have boyfriends. That shows you're not much of an individual if you do.

Okay, so it's hard to ask a guy out. He might say no or not even reply, but if you don't try to ask someone out why do you expect them to ask you out?

Answer 4

First of all, I'd wait two years to start a relationship with Guy. Tkae the advice of a boy. Most, if not all, boys your age are shy of pretty girls... I was and still am. The first thing to do is be yourself. AND don't start a relationship with ,"want to go out?" if you barely know the person. Guys don't like to waste time with a girl... so build the relationship, both partners have to do so for the relationship to work out. Guys don't like being stalked either... I still haven't figured it out but it's creepy.

Answer 5

Um hun......can I just say I didn't have my first bf till I was 17. There's nothing wrong with that. Just because your friends have doesn't mean anything. Just be you and don't be in a rush to get anything. And as cliche' as it sounds, you can't really go out looking for something especially boys. They seems to come around when you're not looking.

Answer 6

go for the guys ask them out i am a 14 year old guy and i have had 4 girlfriends since 7th grade i am in 8th!

can you go answer my questions?

Answer 7

Fourteen is still very young. Just be yourself. Someday you will find someone who will be your lifetime partner. Enjoy being yourself now
and there will be a time when he will finally find you or you will find him.

Answer 8

patiently wait for the rite person nd dont rush into anythin cause others are doin it.

Answer 9

you are too young to be worrying about dating....you will have plenty time to deal with that kind of stress....I mean dont worry about it.....live life now and worry about it later

Answer 10

Awwww Try girls, you'll love it and not regret it.
I would love to be your girlfriend. girls are way better than boys.