well this guy i recently met isnt that good looking but his super nice and a great kisser and so i was wondering do you think i should give him a chance and maybe his looks will rub off on me or do thiese types of relationships never last?
2006-11-29 15:20:57 · 33 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love him for who he is. They can work if you want it to.
2006-11-29 15:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do not be shallow here. The outter shell has nothing what so ever to do with who the person is. If you have all ready kissed and you state that he is super nice you are all ready past the looks department. Just cuz a guy is not the best in the looks department does not mean anything. Give me a break. Yes this type of relationship can work because you are all ready captured so to speak by how nice he is
2006-11-29 15:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you thought he was a good kisser, chances are there is some attraction there. They say the most attractive part of a person is their mind. Physical attraction and physical appearance do not necessarily align.
What makes a relationship work in the long run is about personality. You have to like to spend time with them. I wouldn't go out with him just because he is really nice if you have no attraction for him. That wouldn't be fair to either of you, since it is usually implied that dating someone involves some level of romantic/sexual interaction. Be honest with yourself and with him.
2006-11-29 15:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is a little low on the 1-10 chart but great personality , hard worker and turned out to be a perfect father and yeah the looks will rub off youll start to notice other things that are great and the looks really wont matter anymore mainly when you see other with the cute guys that are NEVER HOME
2006-11-29 15:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by rebecca j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody is "pretty people" of course you should give him a chance. If your going to have a problem with his looks then don't start what you know your not going to finish. It doesn't mean that your shallow either, we need to be attracted to the person we love. So now the ball is in your court, Good Luck.
2006-11-29 15:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by poodlemama1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are not everything and it's the other way around the good lookers are superficial and move from one gal to another because they are self centered. give the guy a chance. Beauty is only skin deep and not everyone is in love or married to prince charming.
2006-11-29 15:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like a person then you like a person. Dont let go of a disconnect because of looks. In years looks dont make memories anyway, the time shared does.
I totally blew a great guy off because of his looks when I was younger. Well I ran back into him 3 or 4 years later and was so mad at myself. Casue damn he was hot.
2006-11-29 15:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by adyafterday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More power to you! Whether you're a man or a woman, liking someone for physical appearances is easy. Liking them for deeper qualities is the hard part, and you're already there. Definitely give him a chance because its those inner qualities that will keep a relationship afloat.
2006-11-29 15:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by jaded1004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least give him a shot lol You're looks won't get rubbed away if you date an uglier person.. If hes cool and won't do you wrong, the least you can do is give him a chance! Who knows.. maybe he could be the greatest boyfriend you'll ever have?
2006-11-29 15:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by obsidian_121 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually those are the ones that are more likely to last. The ones that you like for their personality and the way they kiss, you know people dont have to be 'good looking' to be 'attractive'. Theres a difference! and Noooooooo his looks wont rub off on you . . . his style might, if you spend a lot of time with him, but who cares if you enjoy every minute of it :)
2006-11-29 15:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship has a better chance of lasting than one based on looks. To base a relationship on looks is very shallow. Looks fade, personality stays forever.
2006-11-29 15:23:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋