Why did he make me feel that I was the evil one, when the only thing i did was to devote myself completely with my soul,heart, and good intentions? Why is it that he is holding things from the past strong and he kind of lives in the past with all the things he didnt like that he found bad in me? I loved him for who he was. I knew he wasnt perfect, but why is it that he made me feel like I was the pressure, stress, and frustruation for him, when I knew and saw he was changing. He didnt call, he wouldnt even tell me when he was home. No contact at all. No returning phone calls. Nohting. He wouldnt even take me out and when i would go out, he would get mad.
2006-11-29 15:14:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to start off with he may have loved you. but as the relationship went on he may have felt smothered by you. but didnt tell you. guys dont really say stuff when they are annoyed. it couldve been everythin he had bottled up. but he didnt have to explode on you. to end it, he needed someone to blame and cos he couldnt blame himself he blamed you. thats all. try to move on. you dont deserve to be treated like that.
2006-11-29 15:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship sounds great in many ways and I think your boyfriend is struggling with life in general, he's lucky to have you. He might be going through deeper issues about his dad, the fact that you had a miscarriage or many other things. Life changes us and sometimes we become not so nice, not so receptive, but hopefully he will find the right way to return to being the same loving boyfriend he once was. I understand what you mean about thinking maybe he'll be like this forever - maybe when you first met it was the honeymoon period - but other life events change people for the better, having kids for example seems to chill people out in certain ways. I hope things carry on for you and your relationship comes out of this harder period. Best of luck.
2016-05-23 04:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all listen to yourself he is the one wrong here. Hes trying to play the victim and pass the blame. Seems like its working. If he cannot reciprocate the feelings you have and do what you have done for him. Sorry his lost not yours. He will pay when the next woman does him the same way....karma is deep... For future reference dont tell your guy your past unless he seriously reciprocates it and you have known him for a while. If you got a gut feeling that should of been a sign to stop and dont tell him anything ..... When the shoes are on the other foot its kind of different and believe me he will experience exactly what he did to you... Good luck
2006-11-29 15:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple and sweet because he has to place blame on you for he is in his mind Mr Perfect with no flaws. Honey you are better off without this type of person in your life. Do not take what he says to heart. Instead close this chapter and move forward never looking back. You will find a man that cherishs you for whom you are and appreciates your fine qualities
2006-11-29 15:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can make you feel one way or the other......it is you who is responsible for your own thoughts, feelings and actions. You sound co-dependent and seem to want to control him. You need to get yourself together, sweetie. Stop acting like a victim and go get some therapy so you will be able to make better choices in your life. Stop the Insanity!
2006-11-29 15:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be glad he is your EX Boyfriend. After you get through this, you will find someone who appreciates you and what the ex thinks won't matter. It sounds like a good thing that you are out of this relationship.
2006-11-29 15:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like losing him is a step in the better direction for you. Usually we learn from each relationship so next time you'll look for one who is in touch with own feelings.Blaming is so simple minded.
Good luck!!!
2006-11-29 15:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by I don't get it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all became your fault when you accepted all of his ****! If you would have told him to pump his breaks, he would have calmed down and started to listen. If you take **** from a guy your dating then you shouldn't be dating him.
2006-11-29 15:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not mature enough to be responsible for his own faults, and he's not important enough to worry about.
2006-11-29 15:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by squatch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of that is your fault and dont ever think it is. and dont talk to him anymore if he is bothering you.
2006-11-29 15:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by walrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋