she says she's a virgin but what does that have to do with kissing?
2006-11-29 15:11:10 · 16 answers · asked by jason m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
doug my breath dosent smell bad lmao
im pretty hot(im not kidding)
girls want me and of course im not going to dump her because she wont kiss me but i WANT an explanation!
she always says because shes a virgin?
2006-11-29 15:16:11 · update #1
Well how long have you guys been going out. I've gone through that and it takes a really understanding guy for a girl in that situation to feel better. Maybe she has things in her mind about it. Or maybe she gets nervous?
2006-11-29 15:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have a good time together keep seeing her, and show respect for her decision. In the meantime, increase your eye contact with her, hold her hand and gently kiss her cheek. But at some point, you may have to move on because she's not ready. Be gentle and remain friends.
2006-11-29 15:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by actrighter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jason: There is a message in what she is relating to you by telling you, "she's a virgin" ! She wants to be your gal but on the condition that you don't decide to get "Russian hands and Roman fingers" with her. In other words, she wants her cake and eat it too ! She figures that kissing leads to the "great divide" and therefore, avoids it. You have to be accepting in this relationship ot patient as hell !!! The choice is yours !
2006-11-29 15:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she has a fear of intimacy or is self-conscious. She probably feels that kissing will lead to something more physical, and maybe that scares her. Talk to her and try to understand all aspects of what she expects physically out of your relationship. Tell her that kissing doesn't have to equal sex. If it means a lot to you, and she just isn't willing enough...maybe you need to find someone else.
2006-11-29 15:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by jaded1004 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's scared and hasn't kissed before so she doesn't want to be bad at it, give it a couple more days and if she still won't kiss try talking to her about it
2006-11-29 15:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by CowGirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is not very smart then being a virgin has nothing to do with kissing
2006-11-29 15:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by NaNa BeAr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many girls think thta once u kiss them then you willl want to go to bed right away
give her her space that she wants and soon you will see her coming around
2006-11-29 15:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by kori d 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give her room and let her wait... i think she might be shy and probally a girl that has perents that expect alot from her so wait wen she is ready she'll tell u
2006-11-29 15:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by OutLawZ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol dump her and date a s1ut more fun
2006-11-29 15:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by p1mp_1n 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe ur breath smells LMFAO
2006-11-29 15:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by Rocklander 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋