So,of course, there's this guy. Always a guy but the point is that im TERRIFIED to just say that I like him and im interested in going out seomtime. I reason that this is hard because I am a little traditional about asking people out. (guy ask girl, girl say yes or no) So i finally ask if he wanted to go out, to just hang out, and he says "and do what." i said "anything." and that was the end of that but later i told my friend in confidence and she got in an arguement with him in front of other friends because he wouldnt just tell me wether he liked me or not. What do i do? Do i just tell him and get it over with? Or forget about it?
2006-11-29 15:09:48 · 17 answers · asked by Niko 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm on your side. The guy should do the asking. For one thing it prevents you finding yourself in intolerable situations like this, "and do what?" indeed. If he liked you, as you know very well, he would have jumped at the chance to hang out with you - to do anything or nothing at all. You should forget about him. If he is interested, he knows where you are.
2006-11-29 15:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should have an idea of what you want to do when you go out. Some guys have no idea what to do on a date, so if you could explain it to him, then he wont mess up. It sounds like he likes you but hes just a little shy, so hes coming across with a tough guy attitude.
2006-11-29 23:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by iturnrocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend argued with him about him not being straight about his feelings what does that mean? Does she know something?
Well he obviously knows something now, so why say anything more. When you see him again, meet eyes with him and you'll know the answer. If he smiles ok, if he looks away, move on.
Your friend was out of line.
2006-11-29 23:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by I don't get it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just come out and say it other wise u will never know and that only makes things worse
and u know what if it dosent work out then hey at least u now can go find someone new
someone who actually wants to hang out with you
2006-11-29 23:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by kori d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already took the first step in asking him out. Bite the bullet. The hard part is over.
Go out with him and see if you click.
2006-11-29 23:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by snshnbtrflis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why terrified hon? think about that...just say that if you are interested in a fella that you just wanna go out and have coffee or a coke and get to know them...do not be in such a rush and enjoy!
2006-11-29 23:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I am going to put it straight to you that he is not feeling what you are feeling. That doesnt mean anything cause there are a s*** load of men out there that will jump if asked.
2006-11-29 23:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him and let him know how you feel. If you do not you will always think "what if I would of just told him". Dont ever live life with what ifs in your head.
2006-11-29 23:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by adyafterday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just tell him and ask him how he feels. It's the best way to find out.
It may be hard, but you won't regret it. Whether you ask him or not won't change how he feels about you.
2006-11-29 23:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usally wait for the grl to ask
tell a friend to ask 4 u
2006-11-29 23:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by rokoutwitmykokout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋