there is a girl and i love her but after i moved..well she lives a bit far now and she had a reputaion of cheatin and stuff and i hardly seee her anymore but im like scared that she'll cheat and well bein a bit like a slut but that waz b4 i met her... i helped her correct herself... i should i trust her... i kno she loves me and lately i've been lookin at the girl thats a friend pf myne n i think i like her... what should i do.... i never saw her for like 2 months now.... wat should i do
2006-11-29 14:48:29 · 10 answers · asked by OutLawZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No offense, but your question is giving me a headache.
Look, bud, if I may call you that, I don't know how long you knew your girl friend before moving away, but you said she had a bad reputation and she apparently doesn't deny it, by your account, so the real question is what is really keeping you with her? Do you really think she can be trusted, or are you just saying she loves you to mask a concern you may have that you fear others won't think you are being fair to her.
What I will tell you is this, unless she really earned your trust in that time before you moved, you are probably better off with the new girl. Even if she is now faithful, the evidence doesn't support that she will be. You should either move on or work to bring her to you, if possible.
2006-11-29 14:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Souds like your projecting on your girlfriend your own desires for someone else. Sometimes, it's best to take a break and distance yourself to figure out what you really want. A relationship without trust is not a relationship.
2006-11-29 22:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU ANSWERD YOURSELF. ITS PROBLY NOT A GOOD IDEA TO DATE A GIRL IF YOU HAVE SO MUCH DOUBT ABOUT JUST BECAUSE YOU MIGHT RUIN THE RELASHONSHIP BY NOT TRUSTING HER AND ASKING HER IF SHES CHEATED WHICH ANYONE THAT IS IN THAT SITUATION WOULD DO AND PROBLY ALOT. THE MOST IMPORTANAT THING IN A RELASHIONSHIP IS TRUST.
WAIT A LITTLE AND THE AWNSER WILL COME TO YOU.
I AM SORRY YOU ARE IN THIS SITUATION.......GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-29 22:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by MEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make time to visit her as a surprise. know what's been happening to her. talk...you have to be honest with each other. i guess you think that way coz you really really miss her and haven't seen her in a long time. i'd go crazy without seeing my bf everyday. mkae sure to let her know you're very concerned about her.
if things don't look so good then you have to solve it..it's up to you and her.
2006-11-29 22:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people dont change i use have a boyfriend who use to cheat on his gurls and that supposely i changed him he neva cheated on me but we separated and i think he went back to his old ways just move on go to my question "Is this consider a 2nd chance my story is long i hope u dont get bored?" there are people their maybe two pplz that give great advice and while u look at it i need advice to please
2006-11-29 22:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♥yessy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really trust her??? if you do then you would nat be asking that question. do you think it's worth it staying with her if you do not see her that often??? do what is best for you
2006-11-29 22:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she wants to do and what shes been thinking about about you guys.
2006-11-29 22:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by walrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no baby...move on...you will see there are other girls out there...please for you sake move on
2006-11-29 22:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont linger on her not worth your time
2006-11-29 22:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by Tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay calm it will all work out
2006-11-29 22:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by Justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋