oh, here we go,
I just turned 20, and in the last couple of days, I have started wandering what would be like to have a boyfriend.
first, I just moved to another city, like 3 months ago, ( to attend school) . is it possible that I am going through one of those phases where one just kind of wonder about life?. I know that I am just 20, but I just wander if i might not be able to find a guy who cares for whom i really am, and not because he just wants to have sex( like the last man I met)
sometimes I just think that is my fault for being single, mainly cause i am kind of shy, but then yet, ¿arent boys supposed to show some kind of interest?
personally, I dont think that I look like a model, but I am certainly not that ugly to scare/ or not attract guys.
how can I be more open to guys, if I feel that they just want one thing? I have tried to become "more friendly" with guys, but it is just kind of hard for me. please any tips will be greatly appreciated.
2006-11-29 14:44:56 · 7 answers · asked by butterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a smile always works wonders. a man will almost never approach a woman that is not smiling.
2006-11-29 14:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something I learned the hard way, and at the age of 33..the only way to be more open and meet not only guys, but all sorts of people is to love yourself and not depend on someone else for your happiness. i know it is easier said than done, but if you can do that, and depend on yourself, your confidence will come through and that just seems to be a magnet for some reason.
2006-11-29 22:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the boys and concentrate on college. Get involved in activities and enjoy yourself. If someone does show an interest, just don't jump in the sack since girls bring this kind of stuff on because they are so easy. Stop wasting your time on this stuff and see what is passing you by.
2006-11-29 22:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with you. I think you're having normal thoughts. I think the most important thing in your life now should be to concentrate on your school work though. Maybe finding a nice guy could come later.
2006-11-29 22:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you need to get a hold of your self...its not like you NEED a man to be happy...dont rush things and dont make quick decissions.i am 20 myself..i have a guy who is soooo...desperate for sex. but for 1.5 years we havent had it yet. im not ready..and i think if the guy loves you truly he'll respect your views..give it tym....DO NOT RUSH THINGS BECAUSE U C OTHER DOING IT
2006-11-30 00:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen butter ,just let things happen naturally, why you pushing yourself into it & stressing yourself out, relax, like you said yourself, whats the rush! Sit it out for a bit & see what happens, good things come to those who wait! & if not give me a ring on 079******** lol, just playin with ya!
2006-11-29 22:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by paddy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey, loves comes trough the zipper
2006-11-29 22:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Joe V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋