My sister Dee came from 600 miles away in August w/o asking. Brought her hyperactive 3 yr old son, too. Moved in with my 72 yr old mom and took over- house severely damaged (writing on walls w/markers, smashing furniture & keepsakes, rotting food under beds and carpets). Plus Dee expects mom to babysit every time she goes to work (about 50 hours a week) AND when she goes out to shop or when she is sleeping which is a lot of the time. My mom is frazzled - I came over and found her staring at a wall and weeping on Tuesday, with the kitchen full of rotting food ( she was afraid to clean it because Dee had told her not to, that she would do it when she was good and ready.) Yesterday mom asked me to take Dee out & try and talk to her, and I was appalled to see Dee using mom's Debit Card. Found out she told mom she got the card or she would never see her or grandson again. Mom won't let me confront the B.i.t.ch. because she is scared of losing g/son. Counselling rejected. Please, help?
2006-11-29 14:44:45 · 5 answers · asked by Samlet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would contact the division of aging and report your sister to them and they will handle it.She needs to be stopped and beleive me they will stop her.Look in the phone book for Division of Aging.
2006-11-29 15:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, this is what you do. Unless you are afraid of your sister. You yank her up by the root of her hair and smack the crap out of her and tell her that if she isnt out of that house with the kid and without the credit card You are going to smack the crap out of her again and again and again until she is out. Tell her just exactly how you feel about the situation and tell her what it is doing to your mom. God Bless Her Heart. I wish your sister was here where I could get my hands on her.
But if your afraid of her, then there isn't really much you can do except for talk to her.
If all else fails ,, Hire someone to kick her A S S'
Come to think of it, you might be able to talk to a detective about this type of abuse. I think it is illeagle what she is doing to your mom. You may even be able to find something out about it from an abuse hotline. They should be able to refer you to someone who can help if they can't.
good luck
2006-11-29 18:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would call a lawyer. This is a form of Elder abuse and there are laws to protect your mother. Call the bank and change account number so she can't use the debit card.
2006-11-29 15:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have to respect your mom, but your sister has taken it to far. U have to beat your sister's behind to let her know that ur not going to stand for her BS! What she is doing it completely wrong because ur mom gave her life and took care of her a**, she owes her a lifetime. So tell ur sister that ur not playing these games with her anymore and if she treats ur mom like crap then u tell her to not write a check her a** can't cash!
2006-11-29 15:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
KICK HER LAZY @SS!!!!
2006-11-29 14:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋