I moved out to San Diego from San Fransico to live with my fiance, but recently i decided that i would love to move back to San Fran. Its okay to get married in san diego, but i wanna go home. How do i suggest this to my Fiance?
2006-11-29 14:23:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Snuggle up close with him on the couch some night and tell him you miss San Francisco. Then look up into his eyes and say how much you'd love to go back there to live. Ask if he would move back with you sometime if he seems sympathetic. Then just talk about it more over the course of the next few months and see how it goes, maybe he'll be willing to do it right the wedding if he sees how much it means to you. The thing is, you've got to have in mind where you could both get jobs and then dream a place to live "Oh...wouldn't it be great if we could get a little place to live just off of...." etc. Anyway...good luck.
2006-11-29 14:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sue B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should research a ceremony site and a reception hall. Get all the needed information and present it to you fiancee. Show him the locations and tell him you really want to get married there. Your hubby to be should appreciate the fact you moved for him. Simply explain you like San Fransico and you would prefer to get married there, and you have the right since you left home for him! Good luck and be strong!
2006-11-29 15:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie98_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to get married, it is probably a good idea to agree on which city you will reside together!
Be honest with yourself--have you given San Diego enough time? Did you give yourself a chance to get over the anxiety and nervousness of living in a new city?
Once you decide, you definitely need to express your concerns about wanting to return to SF. Give him rational reasons for wanting to do so. Is he willing to move with you? Be level headed, don't get overly emotional. Listen to his reasons and responses--they are equally important as yours. See if you can arrive at a compromise or solution.
Good luck!
2006-11-29 17:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you guys are planning a life together, you have to make de4cisions together. See how he feels about it, all of it! I am sure that you 2 can find a compromise....after all that is really what marriage is all about. Be sure to let him know true & factual reasons that you want to move back. That way you guys hold no resentment over moving OR staying.
Best of Wishes!!
2006-11-29 14:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When i need to talk to my boyfriend about something serious I bring it up in a different way than he is used to. For example, if you normally talk about your feelings and problems, then try writing him a letter or start off the convo by saying "I really need you to hear me, and listen to how I feel". That should get his attention. Just do something out of the ordinary so he knows that you mean business.
2006-11-29 14:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by funnyhaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the woman. A wedding is about the woman. Dose the man pick the colors or anything besides trying on the tux? No! Just tell him that it would mean alot to you and see what he says.
2006-11-29 14:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Are you okay? I have noticed you are asking a lot of questions about weddings. If you need someone to talk to click my name and email I will help you the best I can with your wedding even tho I'm in Canada you sound very overwhelmed.
2006-11-29 16:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by emmandal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 23:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him before you marry him,,,it will make a big difference. you don;t want 2 start a marriage off with you not wanting to live there with him
2006-11-29 14:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by hl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk it over with him, hun. I hope it all works out for you! Good luck and congrats on the engagment!
2006-11-29 15:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by Noella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋