Alright so I'm 18 1/2 in college and have never had a bf, no first kiss, a guy has never liked me, whats the deal? I have amazing friends who r girls but guys just dont seem to attract to me. Everyone tells me how nice I am and how I would be an amazing gf but guys dont seem to think so. Whats a girl to do, I feel like a guy will never like me and I want to get married some day but right now it doesnt seem like it will ever happen.Help please
2006-11-29 14:21:47 · 13 answers · asked by Teen Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be yourself. go out, sometimes you gotta make the first move. don't try to hard. now, im not one that cares about looks,,,i beilve that people should accept you for who you are. but, dress up a little. do your makeup, but most important, be urself. but you are still young. just dont be afraid to make a move. a lot of guys are losers and go for..well you know wat kind of girls. but don't wory. good things come to those who have been waiting
2006-11-29 14:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to say without knowing more about you. I also don't have a bf, but I digress. Some general reasons may include high standards or fear of intimacy (maybe you're great around gfs, but just scare away guys with your purity). Maybe guys just don't know you're available - maybe they think you're already taken. Or, and this is just a guess, the guys that your friends hang with are not worth your time. Maybe you need to expand your database of cute, nice, available guys. In any case, what's important isn't finding A boyfriend but finding the RIGHT boyfriend. It's a sensitive process that takes time, so no rushing, all right?
2006-11-29 14:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by jaded1004 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Chill dude ... You are only 18 and a half. Those are real good years of life. I can bet there are many out there who wanna ask you out but don't cause they are scared. Males ( me included to some extent) have a big phobia to talk to women though inside they might be aching to do so. Give it some time and things will work out fine.
2006-11-29 14:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ceasar81 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you talk to him like he's a little boy saying things like Oh isn't that cute something along those lines it's demeaning.If you act like kelly ripa over the clay akin thing it could be a turn off.
2006-11-29 14:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry take it easy i didn't have a boy friend until i was 19... concentrate on yourself .. your studies and you friends and hobbies... don't worry about the guys when it is right it will happen ...you cannot make it hapen... do not try i know it is hard not to think about it
2006-11-29 15:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Andi 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not approaching them? Try approaching the guy instead of him approaching you? Of course, that's just me. Unless you really want to, you might not want to listen to me.
2006-11-29 14:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by The World Ends with You 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya same with me too. i thing so u should attract boys eye contact and i thing so u have never loved any guy and may be u had loved any one but not showed to.so my dear friend love some with true heart and surely u will soon have a bf
2006-11-29 14:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe your a town boy or maybe they dont like your looks and also maybe your not they type
2006-11-29 14:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by TYRA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do u have bad breathe or body odor-check it out girl maybe there is where the problem lies. Sorry to offend you i need sucking two points.
2006-11-29 14:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Monagurl 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
probley you just havent got that confdeice boost you need that kinda remal to him u know
2006-11-29 14:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋