I feel he's not faithful, how can I be sure?
2006-11-29 14:18:34 · 12 answers · asked by bj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called COMMUNICATION, it is the base for ANY relationship...if you don't have it then your relationship is doomed anyway.
2006-11-29 14:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the answers are very simple, and sometimes that simplicity is what make them so difficult.
Most probably you have tried time and again to talk to him about your concerns, maybe you had argued that your relationship needs some effort from his end, or it will deteriorate and you already know that wondering about how faithful he is will eventually create a wound so deep you guys will not recover from it.
For your relationship to work, both of you should feel nurtured and taken care of. If one of you have doubts, the other must take charge and clear them, if not, then you must consider either counseling or moving on.
2006-11-29 22:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by umbralatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where there is smoke there is usually a fire...
find out for sure.
if you have such feelings maybe he is not the guy for you in the first place.
if you feel he is not being honest, you be honest. tell him how you are feeling and why. if he gets mad or bails, you are better off without someone you do not feel comfortable with!!!
2006-11-29 22:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say give him an ultamatium. if he's been sleeping around and not telling you what's up he's good to go out the door. he needs to be honest with you if he wants things to work. or you can just tell him that he needs to be honest about certain things and dont beat around the bush in serioud matters.
2006-11-29 22:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by hotblacanesemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a nice long talk with him.
Pack his clothes and throw them out in the yard.
This always brings up the subject nicely.
2006-11-29 22:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for the hills....if he isn't honest and you feel he's unfaithful then there isn't a lot of hope...move on with your life.
2006-11-29 22:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by nancy w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a private investigator if u can afford. if not, get used to it. anyway, u can't expect a man to remain faithful all their life to only one woman. that's man.
2006-11-29 22:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lighten up yourself or find someone 'deeper' who is more sesitive and in tune with your insecurities and suspicions.
Try to make sure you are worth being with.....
2006-11-29 22:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is get your own place, move out and make better decisions about relationships.
2006-11-29 22:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm that feeling you have is our instict. He's probably not faithful, talk to him. good luck
2006-11-29 22:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel he is not faithful what make you think this?? you to to tell us more.
2006-11-29 22:21:20 · answer #11 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋