2006-11-29 14:16:02 · 4 answers · asked by DREAMY 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well i am replying to you becuase i actually am 13 and thought id like to give u my advice...i also am christian and before i really had a deep relationship with God i bought a little devotional book and basically alot of it was on siblings. and for me it is hard becuase im the only girl and the closest brother age to me is 19 and the other two are even older then that, so for a while i had a very hard time with not fightigin with them. they teased me alot but really i think just talking to the kids about respect. it took me up untill about 7th grade to really respect my brothers, and even tho they did all this to me i knew i needed to try to step up and be a bigger person, so i honestly think if u just sit them down and talk to them about those things about respect,love, and basically "treat them how you want to be treated" it would help them alot, and mean alot to them that you actually care enough to go out of your way, and mayb the siblings just need to be bonded together better, ask them to lay hands on eachother and just pray for one another, just so they feel closer...hope that helps and good luck!! and well another thing is, i really really apprecitate what my leaders do for me and i want to personally thank you for taking time out of your life to serve God by being a leader to kids my age and younger, its really a honorable thing your doing.
2006-11-29 14:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Marcy J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk about the parts of the bible that give instruction on how to deal with your enemies, or those that hurt you. YOU know they are not really enemies, but sometimes they really feel like it, and it applies. Pray for and love those that despise you, or are your enemies.....do kind things, and in doing will heap coals on their heads, etc, all those references. They will get a kick out of it, at their age, but also may give them a lesson that will truly help now and in the future. For those that don't know about the "coals" passage, don't worry, it doesn't mean to heap real coals on anyones head.
2006-11-29 22:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by oceansnsunsets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my mom use to sit us in front of each other and make us stare at each other,,within minutes we would be laughing and say sorry...
2006-11-29 22:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by I give you the Glory Father ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill one of them - preferably the most annoying one - oh, consider the problem solved.
2006-11-29 22:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋