i have a question that relates to relationships. i met me friends niece and she really likes me and i really like her but we've only had one day to actually talk to one an other, but i still think of her every day and i really miss her the thing is she lives in a different state, but talks about moving near me. before i knew this i moved to live with my brother to get my life on track. what should i do move back and be with her or stay here until i staightin my life out? plz help out.
2006-11-29 14:15:49 · 12 answers · asked by matt_harmon2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First get your life straight. If she really likes you she will be wiling to help you. Good luck. Follow your heart. Remember you can never lie to your heart.
2006-11-29 14:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by jenny21gon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get on the right track before going into any commited relationship. By all means, continue talking to her and getting to know her. She may just be a best friend your looking for and if you are meant to be together it will happen, have some patients and get your life together, you will be happier in the long run.
2006-11-29 14:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by jesswonderin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for a relationship to work out you have to have your life in order before you can take on someone else's life as well. Talk to her on the phone and stuff while you are doing this. Even tell her whats up. Then once things are in order with you, you then can pursue a relationship even better then you would have been.
Good luck!
2006-11-29 14:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't move back, that's ridiculous. A man should not adjust his life to revolve around a woman. That will not be a sound basis for any relationship and women will start having contempt for you.
Move on.
2006-11-29 14:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should focus on you right now...what if you were to move back to be with her and things didnt work out? If you straighten your life out then maybe the answer to your question will be alot clearer.but keep in touch with her and maybe she will move to you.. But u are first..
2006-11-29 14:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by happy2BAlive!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to get your self stright becouse if you dont have yourself together it will be hard to be with anyone eles do talk to her let her know how you feel and since you only were around her for one day take time over the phone and coumpter to get to know her better so that gives you time to get your self together and then if you still feel the same have her move where you are or go to her
2006-11-29 14:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by onlyme84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straighten your life out a relationship cant work unless you work on yourself first as sor her if shes willing to relocate great until then maybe phones and e-mail communications along with a few visits can subside until you get things on track
2006-11-29 14:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by Kara B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straingten out your life and forget the girl.....you have no attachment to her and one day qualifies for nothing. Sounds like you have some issues and she would end up dumping you anyway.
2006-11-29 14:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on getting your life straightened out...it will be better for her and you. and if its your friends niece, which sounds kind of weird, but then you should be able to keep in contact with her...work on you first though
2006-11-29 14:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by College Wifey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write her a letter..
that way she'll know that you're thinkin about her.
then tell her what you feel for her..
good luck dude..
2006-11-29 14:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by tep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋