Met a divorced man with 2 kids almost 4 months ago we got on so well and enjoyed each others company alot one night i was feeling down that i asked him if there was a chance we could start a relationship in the near future he said possibly the next night it was different has if we had never talked of it anyway a few(3) weeks ago we spent the night together he left and havent heard from him since til the other night got a text message saying he missed me.. i have shed tears over him is it worth doing it over again or not
2006-11-29 14:12:49 · 4 answers · asked by natasha g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry you SET your self up...you need to understand men want to control where the relationship is going...but you shouldn't of slept with him at all...you need to earn Respect first, if you see him..he may just want to use you again, but if he says he wants to begin a relationship then continue, but hold on the sex..for a while to see if he really does want you..other than just using you for sex...men love playing games just to have sex...not all men..but some..watch out..
2006-11-29 14:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so going to be better off if you leave and dont worry about him, OK I miss Laura but I know she misses me aswell so that makes it ok, but the fact that you hadn't heard from him in 3 weeks is a tad sus as it makes me think that he had been with someother woman since he slpet with you, I am sorry but its the horrible truth with some of us males, some of us just use women like toys, we like them for a while and they dont talk or see them ever again, He has used you as his sex buddy and I am sorry to say but he will only do this again and again so my advice is for you to move on and find a REAL man who will be there for you....
Mitch
2006-11-29 22:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like to me you are going to be a puppet on the string when he wants to be bother he will call you unless he has some one else on the side waiting but if you want to be used then just stay right were you are you are a booty call when no one else wants to be bother with him leave him look at the signs he is giving you good luck PS: The answer is NO!he wants when he needs
2006-11-29 22:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he is not worth the tears, you deserve better than a man who cannot call or e-mail you for 3 weeks!
2006-11-29 22:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by victoria_has_a_secret2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋