i have this guy friend and he is really nice and sweet but he isnt the cutest puppy in the pound and he has a bit of a speech problem. i like him a little more than a friend but not as a bf. and when were in a band practice room there is this really uncomferable silence between us and its like im almost scared although i like him. i dont know y im so afriad of him. any suggestions?? (he is a senoir and im a freshy)
2006-11-29 14:10:47 · 11 answers · asked by Bean 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you should get to know him better. obviously you like him so far maybe you will get to like him more when you know more about him......good luck! and dont be shy!
2006-11-29 14:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Danigirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, you should figure out how you feel about him. If it's only a little more than a friend, then maybe staying friends is the best option after all. Not only that, but if you incorrectly decide to pursue him as more than a friend and it turns out he doesn't feel that way about you, then you're left in the dust and things are even more awkward between you two. Finally, if you're in the band practice room for practicing, there probably shouldn't be much talking anyways. ;)
2006-11-29 22:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Yoosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to the guy. Maybe ask him about his family or his job or his car or anything that guys like to talk about. Maybe talk with him about a troubling part in the music that you are playing or the music program that your band is going to be participating in. YOu may find that if you start to talk with him, he will gladly respond. Maybe he feels the same way you do and is not sure how to start the conversation. He also may be a bit shy because of his speech problem. I would not base my feelings on whether the guy is good looking or speaks well. It's what inside that counts and also how he treats you. My hubby is not the most handsome man in the world, but his heart and soul are sweet, gentle and kind. He treats me and our daughter like we are gold and the most precious thing in the world. That's what counts, not whether he could be a model in GQ.
2006-11-29 22:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so he has a speech problem and he's not the cutest but heres a question does he treat u with respect and nicely? and does he have a good heart it on the inside that counts
2006-11-29 22:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by aime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he is a guy so thereis the whole unknown territory thing and the social stigma of being seen w/ lispy but if you told him you like him as a close friend but not for a relationship you'll crush him but if i look deep down and find any thing else in you you may see more than skin deep i dunno but thatmy two cents 4 two points
2006-11-29 22:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
Hey, that's what happened to me last year. we would stare at each other (he would stare at me more then ever) 3rd trimester we had a class together and he would stare at me for the longest time. I don't like him any more this was when i was a freshmen and he was a senior. ok bu-bye now =))))
2006-11-29 22:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you feel like a sis to him and the silence is a competition thing
2006-11-29 22:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate
2006-11-29 22:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let things happen, you have no reason to be afraid
if its meant to be it will happen, give it time
2006-11-29 22:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pop ya knockers out, that'll sort it out.
2006-11-29 22:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Im a killer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋