Older guy problem PLEASE HELP!?

Question

Hi. Well, there's this guy who I REALLY like. He's cute, smart, and funny. The problem is, he's 15 and I'm only 12! He's also my brother's friend. I've been so sad because I know in reality it will probably never work out between us, but in the back of my mind I still kinda have some hope. I realize I'm too young to date now, but I REALLY want it to work out in a few years if he's not too old for me. We're both Christians, and we have Christian families. I have been praying to God about it a lot, but so far He hasn't answered yet. I try not to think about this guy because it just makes me sad, but I really like him. And also, my brother's not the kind of person that I could ask about this guy; he's more the quiet, shy type and he probably wouldn't answer me. He doesn't even know I like him. I've liked him for a few months now, but I'm not about to tell him. I've had other crushes before, but this seems different. I'm SO sad, what should I do? :(

Answer 1

so, what was your question?

youre too young anyhow. wait till you get older & the age gaps get smaller.

Answer 2

I had the EXACT problem as you. I have the same age difference too. I prayed that it would work, but at the moment, it didn't. In the end, it did work out for me. I'm now 15 and he's 18 but we're together and I'm so happy that it did. If you're anything like me, it will happen for you..or better, find someone now to take your mind off of him. I wish the best on you two!

Answer 3

I dont mean to be partonising, but your very young and young girls have crushes on just about every male in the vicinity.

If he's 15, he will most likely be looking at girls his own age, when your that young age differences are much bigger than when your older.

When I was 15 I wouldnt have gone near a 14 yo, let alone a 12yo.

Get a crush on someone your own age.

Answer 4

wait for a few years,then date him