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i met her with a broken heart.we talked.became so close and fell in love.after few weeks she suddenly disappeared from my life.she told me her lover is back.I remained with a broken heart but couldnt stop loving her.now she is left alone again.we still talk and she knows that i still love her.when i ask,she says "i dont know". I know I cant live without her.i am always there when she is alone and sad and she knows how much I love her.she knows nobody's ever gonna love her as I do.may be she doubts if she can love me again.can she ? please answer. remembar, she would be the one and only woman in my life. no matter she comes back or not.

2006-11-29 14:06:46 · 16 answers · asked by tom p 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

Ask her if she wants to pursue a relationship with you and cut out the BS. truth can only go from there. If you are not the one that broke her heart it shouldn't matter. Now if things don't go as planned with her. YOU CAN MOVE ON..... The world has alot of women that can please you in life. It has not come to a end. Don't take one situation and deprive yourself of lifes beauties.

2006-11-29 14:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Miz Lady 2 · 0 0

I was having troubles opening up again after my first divorce, my husband now just kept on and on and on until I would get serious with him and he was not subtle about it, he was very pushy; very. We are married now and I couldn't be happier. If you care that much about the girl, maybe you could try what he did:
Stay in touch every hour on the hour faithfully and don't give up. Keep showing her that you are there for her, but also at the same time, let her know that if she doesn't want you that you will move on; even if you will not.

2006-11-29 22:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie G 2 · 0 0

You may think that your dedication for her is out of your control, but you are wrong. You have made a conscious choice to make her your one & only, & you can also make a conscious choice to move on & find another woman to love.

Your capacity to love is not due to her, it's in spite of her.

You are giving your life, & future to someone who is indecisive. It would be such a waste if you remained dedicated to her. She doesn't deserve you. While you keep yourself on HER path, you will be missing the road to the woman who will really love you. It isn't that she isn't out there, you just haven't found her yet.

2006-11-29 22:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0 0

sounds like your her fall back man..whenever her and her lover are in bad terms she runs to you for attention..she might have feelings for you but obviously her feelings for the other man are stronger or she would not keep running back to him... You need to tell her to choose right now other wise this could go on for years and that is a huge waist of time. She might leave him for you, is she is smart...but if there are kids involved then dont count on it.. your in a very tuff position..Try and meet someone else and keep your mind off of her in the mean time..Maybe youll have a change of heart and find someone out there who really knows what she has..good luck..!

2006-11-29 22:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by happy2BAlive!! 2 · 0 0

if your love is true from heart she will surely love u again and u said that she is one and only woman in your life then u should keep trying for her and she is a broken heartet so let her take time to diside about u

2006-11-29 22:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by raj 2 · 0 0

She sounds like she loved you at one time but she doesn't have the same feelings as you do. So i would try to move on and if she really is the one she will have to relize that on her own.

2006-11-29 22:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honey, she's using you as a doormat! Yes, you have deeply fallen in love, but this is no way for her to treat you! You are a special person and you deserve your due respect....I think, unless she's willing to give that to you...stay away!

2006-11-29 22:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0 0

She can love you again, that happened to me...But if her lover keeps coming back and she keeps on leaving you, you should try to think about other girls even though it's real HARD

2006-11-29 22:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jamaican girl<3 4 · 0 0

Well if you love her tell her how you feel. If she does like you back than go along. But if she doesn't like you you have to remember to respect her decision. If she likes you she likes you, you can't force someone to like you just because you like her. If you want true love than you both have to like each other. I hope things will work out.

2006-11-29 22:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by sherry_pucca 2 · 0 0

Well I have been there. I was her. Trust me they will break up again and she will come back. But to her your a shoulder and someone to catch her before she falls.

2006-11-29 22:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by jenny21gon 2 · 0 0

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