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This is getting very old to me. I dont have any friends because he pulls down my pants in the hallway and everyone laughs at me. I get embarrased but i dont do anything. Im thinking about punching him tomorrow. Where can i punch him to make him think im not playing around anymore. Hes probably going to liquify me afterwards but i have to take a stand...

2006-11-29 13:46:53 · 35 answers · asked by abazzabba 1 in Sports Boxing

35 answers

how long has it been going on?.....usually if you "dont do anything" it gets old and he'll back off and move on to someone with a reaction...but im afraid if you do punch him, that will give him more of a reason to never back off. If you have to do it, Iunderstand you need to take a stand try and do it infront of administrators so it cant go too far, their job is to bring down violence.....but remeber for someone to abuse someone else by picking on them it is because they feel inadequate and need to feel better about themselves. He must have serious mental problems and insecurity.

2006-11-29 13:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

go and make a stand, pull his pants too, say to him you are a bully because you have been bullied before!
dont take that humiliation once again fight back but make sure, you dont kill him or do extreme harm, plan your attack, do something that will really humiliate him , find he's secrets, you must plan your attack in a very organized manner, dont go punching him around, when he pulls your pants down , kick his genitals, surprise him, act like you would not fight back , dont you have anybody who can help you out, if you have bestfriend or a girl friend fight him together with your friends, ( well you entioned you dont have any friends, so go finds someone who is also bullied by this bully)( go find an ally first, someone who really hate s the guy and plan your revenge) but never take it to the extreme level like killing him or something just fight back, when he pulls your pants kick him, then punch him in the nose that would really really hurt, (practice well) what is the background of his family, and research why he does that to you all the time,
man ! youre 18 he does not have the right to do that,
afterwards when he is already hurt ,. explain to him you did that to defend your dignity, if he ever does bully you again tell him you will resort to something more, he better start respecting people if i was there in your school , i would punch that bully in the nose and make him scream, im a girl , yet i promise you he would not even attempt that on me! go get some respect, bullies dont deserve to bully you!

2006-11-29 15:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0 0

Violence is the absolutely last thing to do. That said, if you are going to 'battle stations', one punch will probably not suffice. IF, repeat IF, you get to that level, think only of winning...not surprising, hurting, bothering, etc. think winning. The best way to do that is a series of punches to the face. Are you right handed? If so, make the tightest fist you can with your right hand and hit him square on the nose with ar ight cross. Throw it fast and hard and follow through. This is not a jab..it is your K O punch. IMMEDIATELY follow-up with a left and then another right etc etc etc until your friends (or his) intervene. Continuous punching will win the day. Don't worry about the blood (face cuts and lip / nose bleeds are messy) keep on hiting him as hard and fast and accurately as you can. Good luck. (Are you sure there is no other way out of/ around this?) Hit him hard,fast, and repetitively. If you do this, let me know how it all turns out. (Please consider alternatives.)

2006-11-29 13:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by homerunhitter 4 · 0 0

You are absolutely right. Bullies do what they do because they can and it gets a laugh. True, he might cream you so choose your timing carefully. I would wait until I was at a very public place so you know the fight won't last long. ( The cafeteria is good ) Be ready, get angry! When he does something, go after him for all your worth. Don't fight like a girl ,though, scream and jump on him, surprise, right now, is your best weapon. Punch and kick and pummel him until they pull you apart.

Then explain how this was merely self defense, not an attack.

Good luck, my friend.

2006-11-29 13:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

well first off, don't do it in a public place, that is a bad idea, that's what bullies feed off of. Get him privately, sneak up on him when he's alone, tap him on teh shoulder and unload on his nose when he turns around, but don't stop there, then grab his hair, and pull his face into your knee, which is coming up as fast as you can make it. kick him in the nuts and push him over, kick him while he's on the ground, then walk away, let him explain to his friends where he got his plastic surgery. also, i am a little curious what kind of pants you are wearing if he can pull them down all the time, get some jeans and a belt man, don't wear overly baggy clothes that can just fall off. and if you do smash him in the face with your knee, it's easier to wash the blood out of jeans than some polyester crap pants.

2006-12-01 07:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Roy B 3 · 0 0

Fighting is not the answer. Punching him isn't going to earn you any respect or cool points. Honestly, this guy sounds like such a douche bag, and I'm sorry you've had to deal with his disgustingly asshole ways. Aaargh, I'm so mad because this guy sounds like he needs a slow, painful castration, and the rest of the kids at your school sound like they're either assholes too or their too cowardly to stand up to this guy. Now, I don't agree with your violent plan, but I do think you have to do something.

Try finding other kids that think this guy is a jerk and stand up to him as a group, maybe even go to your school's administration. Maybe even just find this guy on his own and talk to him; find out why he insists on being such a jerk to you. Either way, fighting him is not the answer.

If you insist on it, however.. go for the throat.

2006-11-29 14:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by mango 3 · 0 0

You don't need to know how to box. You don't need to know kung-fu. You don't need to know karate. You JUST need to know CRAZY. Take a stand. One punch is not going to do it. Let the punches fly fast and furious and act psycho. Try to get some body shots in too, which will take the wind out of him and weaken his legs. You may get your **** creamed, but it will be the last time the punk tries it.

A kick to the balls is a cheap shot and won't earn you much respect.

2006-11-29 14:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by Gin Martini 5 · 0 0

Yea u definitly have to stand up for yourself, although try to not become a bully urself and punch him. FIRST, tell him in a Strong, Confident voice, and also have strong body language, BE loud but not mean loud, like UR THE BOSS loud, and tell him to stop...use SMART words, and maybe be humourous, ....r u a boy?, u could be like...." LISTEN....Y DON'T U STOP PULLIN DOWN MY PANTS, I DONT ROLL THAT WAY! i aint GAY, u wish, thats y u keep pullin them down! so why dont u stop!...." .....if SMART -talking dont work, i would push him away, and DONT ever throw the first punch, only fight back if he hits u really hard...but be confident and strong when u confront him, practise at home...

2006-11-29 13:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

U GOT TO BE KIDDING RIGHT, YOUR 18. IF EVERYTHING ELSE FAILS, GO UP TO HIM AND SAY F.... YOU MOTHER F....R, LETS CATCH A HEAD UP, ONE ON ONE. DON'T CHEAP SHOT HIM OR HIT HIM IN THE NUTS, THAT WILL MAKE YOU LOOK BAD, ITS ALL ABOUT "RESPECT". FIGHT LIKE IF YOUR LIFE IS ON THE LINE, BECAUSE IT IS. ONCE YOU RUN, YOU'LL BE RUNNING FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, BECAUSE LIFE IS HARD, STAND UP FOR YOUR SELF, ONCE YOU DO, LIFE SEEMS EASIER. A GOOD SPOT TO HIT HIM HARD IS THE LOW SIDE OF THE CHIN, EVEN IF YOU DONT HIT HIM HARD BUT CONNECT THAT WILL BE ENOUGH TO STUNNED HIM, GO FOR THE OTHER SIDE OF THE CHIN WITH A POWER PUNCH AND KEEP SWINGING. DON'T FORGET YOU CAN SWING FIRST, IF ANYTHING JUST HIT HIM. MAKE YOUR POINT ACROSS.

2006-11-29 22:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by NADAH 1 · 0 0

I'm so sorry to hear about all this.... I was picked on throughout school my whole life, but nothign liek that.... My husband on the other hand used to wear 2 sets of pants for that reason...he always got picked on and went home in tears and I found out that he would cut himself and many days contimplated suicide to the point that his family agreed to let him drop out of high school.
I would suggest talking to a teach/principal...if you have a police officer that visits your school (we had one where I went) talk to him/her about it.... I would hate to see you throw a punch at this bully to try to make a stand for yourself and get beat on more for it. They always say walk away from fights but I know at times it's hard... I have slapped a girl across the face before and I'm shy as anything and had everybody just turn and look at me like 'did she just do that?' .... talk to somebody, guidance councellor perhaps and get some help that way...give his name, description, whatever it takes...or talk to somebody about transferring schools. If you absolutely half to resort to violence, giving a good hard kick to the nuts is a good way to bring him to his knees... Just don't go about things like Columbine... There is enough voilence in the world, we don't need to bring it into our schools....a place that is SUPPOSED to be zero-tollerance on bullying and be a safe place for kids to be.
Good luck... I feel for you.

2006-11-29 14:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 0 0

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