I get freaked out when people smile at me. It make me worry, why do they think they need to smile at me? Do they think I'm sad and need some cheering up? Do they think I'm a *special* kid? Do they think I'm stupid? Do they think they're better than me? Do they think I'm angry? Are they scared of me and think I hate them, smiling as a gesture that they don't hate me?
2006-11-29 13:27:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
they want to be acknowledged.
people generally like to be acknowledged. when they acknowledge another, they force the other to acknowledge them (in large cities, however, people learn to ignore others, otherwise we would all be overwhelmed with the acknowledging of others).
when someone smiles at you, they are most likely expressing their need for human emotional connection; they want to be acknowledged.
what is it about being acknowledged? when someone acknowledges you, they are affirming your existence, and in doing so giving it meaning. people need meaning, and social interaction is one place people look for meaning.
2006-11-29 15:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by spotmenow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem a bit paranoid. Could it be that there are still some nice people out there in the world? I tend to smile at people when I walk by them; I think it's my nature because I work in retail. Don't worry so much- just give a friendly smile back and everyone will feel warm toward you!
2006-11-29 13:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't read into it too much, especially if the smiles are coming from strangers. People use smiles as a form of initial communication. They are basically saying that I am friendly and won't bite. Not all societies are like this though but this pretty much applies to american culture in general.
2006-11-29 13:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Trevor L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its another way of saying "Hi" to you! I smile at people all the time. It has nothing to do with age, or anything to do with being better or special kid or anything like that. I/They just like to smile at people. Because its another way of saying "Hi" to people.
Because people have realized that when people say "Hi" to people they don't say "Hi" Back. So when people smile at people (No matter what the age) its most likely they will get a response with a smile then with a "Hi" Back.
The people that smile at you don't even know you. And no they don't hate you. Smiling is a sign that they like you as a person not dislike you.
2006-11-29 13:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by jrealitytv 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They think you are funny looking!?!
Seriously, though! Many people often smile at another when they find that person attractive or interesting!
Try not to worry so much or see a doctor for some help! Using medicine is not a bad thing in this day and age! I do!!!
IMHO,
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2006-11-29 13:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means they're friendly.
Or. You're so worth smiling at :) That's a good thing,they don't hate you,I guess.
2006-11-29 13:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by HahaYou'rePwned! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the first time of my life someone think "smile' to her make her freak out. no honey, it is just they are caring and polite to you. and most importantly they think you are worth to smile at.
2006-11-29 13:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by naw m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person, could be creepy, could be warm, this is why we socialize and get to know people so we can make informed decisions about whether or not to smile back.
2006-11-29 13:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Visual Cliff 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That they are friendly and like to smile. You need help, a little too paranoid
2006-11-29 13:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I see it as someone telling me to have a nice day, an easier way of saying hi witout having to use your hands and wave...a way of being nice...they don't hate you and i don't think your stupid
2006-11-29 13:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋