you cant show her you love her in the way she wants.im a selfish guy i know,she gives alot and all i can do it seems is take,i like to go out with my friends i dont come home til the next day cause she bitches at me,when im drunk i dont feel like going home,i feel i love her but if i keep doing this to her and knowing its really hurting her and i cant seem to change do i really?
2006-11-29 13:24:03 · 11 answers · asked by joannluna1974 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that you really love her. I know I wouldn't treat someone I love that way.
2006-11-29 13:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cant make an honest effort, then its just lust, or convinience.
if you honestly try and she just isnt making it clear what SHE needs, or you are honestly trying but you have a bunch of other pressures that you cant get away from and she's the only person that you really can get away from and you tell her that and she agrees, but you continue to make an honest effort to give something back, then hopefully she'll realize that you do love her, you're just emotionally drained.
from what you've said here, you make no effort. what seems like her "bitching" to you is probably just her trying to get you to pay her some honest attention. if you keep getting drunk and not comin home, she'll probably think you are cheating.
i think you just think you are in love. all you're doing is stringing her along like a yo-yo, back and forth. stop being a jerk.
2006-11-29 13:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please take what I am going to say very seriusly I had a bf just like you. And all your doing is hurting her if you feel you love her at all you should stop. If you cant let her go and tell that you dont want to hurt her any more and that is why you are ending the relationship. I'm telling you all you will do is make her hate you if you dont try to make some type of change.
2006-11-29 13:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by samcamcam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one you are a selfish prick. BEcause why don't you take your woman out sometimes besides going out with your friends. What you and you friends are doing each other. There is a time for friends and a time for women and remember who cooks, cleans, and has sex with you Idiot. Not unless you and your friends are fags. But if I was you Thank GOd I am not. But I would stay at home and make my woman feel wanted. HEll the reason she bitches at you is because she wants to go out too. What's going to happen when she finds someone that treats her right, someone like me. HEy if I knew where you'll lived while you went out with your friends I would go out with your woman get the picture stupid. SO grow up and remember who cleans, cooks, has sex with you and when your sick is there. Not your friends. Man makes me what to slap your stupid *** around.
2006-11-29 13:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a man but I really needed to answer this one. To easy
If you really love her and you trully don't want to lose her, then you wouldn't think twice about getting some help. If nothing else, do it for yourself. Not only will this relationship fail but every relationship after will also fail.
2006-11-29 13:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that you are coming to a turning point in your life. one part of you is thinking it is time to settle down a bit and the other just wants to have fun at any cost. you need to make a big dission. but most of all you need to think of your girl is it fair to her to be treated this way. you need to find a girl that likes to party with you and one that you would like to be there wiyh you.
2006-11-29 13:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by roy.1959 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a pok-shot .... but sounds like your happier runnin with the crowd ... don't think your ready to settle yet .......
Just make your exit a graceful one .... when you do get ready to settle ...it's easier to walk in a clear field than jog thru a cow pasture! If you get my drift !
2006-11-29 13:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question at all the answer is 'no - you don't really love her'
2006-11-29 13:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Boo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like you drive me nuts, but its nice to know that you care.
2006-11-29 13:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Violante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you aren't mature enough to handle real love, nor do you know what it is. grow up.
2006-11-29 13:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by Cassian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋