ok so there is this guy that i like and he likes me too but he has a gf?...he told me that he wanted to ask me to semi if his gf wasnt going to go with him...he has been friends with me for over a year now and i no he isnt a player..im just confused?...how can he be likeing me but have a gf?...and at semi he WANTS to dance with me...but how do i get him away frm his gf?...plz help..im so confused..? :S:S:S:S:S:S:S:S
2006-11-29 13:15:47 · 14 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clear your mind. He has a girlfriend! I understand, you just blinded by him actually. Just leave him and find new target.
2006-11-29 13:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by ღSuzyneta Izziyaniღ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess the best way to know the answer would be to ask him. you have to clarify if he really likes you or his gf. Tell him it would be unfair to his gf and to you if he has both of you at the same time. It might be hard for him to choose and it might hurt if he doesn't make the decision you want him to make but at least you KNOW.
if it works out, good for you! :D
if it doesn't, maybe he's just not the one for you. if he doesn't choose you and you have a relationship, he might just take advantage of you because he would always choose other things before you. if he's not ready for commitment, don't force him to because it would end disastrously.
either way, it would be best that you know rather than regret later that you didn't ask him and the chance is gone.
2006-11-29 13:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What don't you get? Your just waiting on the side line waiting for him. You said hes not a player? That's what players do. Your just considered a shancha to him. It looks like he not going to leave his gf for you.Be smart and find a guy who doesn't choose his own lady over you.
2006-11-29 13:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point listen currenty I got heart broken either your friend will get heart broken, you will get heart broken, or his gf will get heart broken.
You deserve someone that will stay with you and plus he is just trying to get his gf's attention I bet there are millions of other guys better then him that wants to ask you just wait
2006-11-29 13:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get in between there relationship! I say you shouldn't go with him to the Semi until you have asked his girlfriend if its alright! Plus you have to understand what if you were in her position! Would you be mad if you found your boyfriend took another girl? But its not up to me its up to you! Whatever you do i wish you the best!
2006-11-29 13:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend and likes you thenthat tells me he is a bad boyfriend, stay away from guys like him because he will do the same thing to you
2006-11-29 13:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by daisy322_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play into it girl, if he really wants you, he'll find a way to dump her. He may be thinking about trying to be a player, or just trying to see how you feel with out loosing his girl. I'm not trying to get you mad at your friend, but I'm just saying please be carfull, because a lot of guys try to be slick.
2006-11-29 13:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from cheaters like him and stay away from boys completely. Wait until you are older and the boys grow up, some actually do grow up, into men.
2006-11-29 13:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by questioningly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes got a gf and wants u then he needs to make a choise, dump her and take u or be with her!!! remember, what goes around coms around, and if he cheats on her with u, then he will eventually chat on u
2006-11-29 13:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by starlight1blonde87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to have someone who is devoted to you, and only you. Explain to him that if he really cares for you, then he will make the choice to be with you and only you. It is unfair to both you and his girlfriend to be playing games with both of you and your feelings. Make the choice to care about yourself enough to set up boundaries to enable your happiness and positive choices. Best of luck, and remember, you are worth it !!
2006-11-29 13:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good Boyfriend,a bit sneaky for you both,he will do the same to you if you guys hook up.Never compete,he does or he doesnt.
2006-11-29 13:32:30 · answer #11 · answered by harleyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋