Should you do anything if his good friend is not accepting you and make you feel miserable on every occasion he gets? Other friends are liking me, but this one is close friend of his, and shows that he disrespects me. Should your loved one help you out? Is it ok to ask for distance, or even ultimatum (shows that it went beyond the line)? If you come to this point, is your loved one not doing something right? thx
2006-11-29 12:56:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would talk to the "loved one" and tell him that it hurts you and ask him to at least try and talk to the friend. Maybe he can just tell the guy to keep his comments to himself even if he doesnt really like you that much. that way you dont seem like you are trying to make him chose between you and his friend.
2006-11-29 12:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lauryn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His good friend is probably jealous of the time you are spending with him. If you give your guy an ultimatum be ready to accept the answer. If this guy has been his friend for a long time and your relationship is new he could pick the friend if he's not 100% sure where your relationship is going. Try to find a common interest with the guy and let him know that you arent trying to steal him away from his bud, you might find a new friend.
2006-11-29 21:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by tarahump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best that you talk to your significant other about this situation. It is always key to a successful relationship to have great communication with your partner. If this person makes you feel so awful then yes it is something that should be addressed. I think that you should speak with your significant other and explain how his friends attitude and actions hurt and offend you. If he truly cares for you he will talk to his friend about it. From there I should hope that you all would be able to come to some understanding and be able to get everything out in the open. Friends are great to have but the love of your life is just that, the love of your life.
2006-11-29 21:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll regret it if you pull a power play. Yeah, you can pull an ultimatum and you'll probably win. But that kind of win will cost you later on and he'll find something of yours that he doesn't like and make you sacrifice it. Then it's downhill fast from there.
2006-11-29 21:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Robert M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get between a guy and his mates.
If you're having trouble with his friend, just don't be too chummy with him, but you're really not going to be able to control either of them.
Whatever happens, good luck.
2006-11-29 21:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Grommit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an ultimatum is the last resort talk to him frist tell him how you feel and what has been going on
2006-11-29 21:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by beefcowsboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your loved one exactly how you feel. You should also explain what is making you feel disprespected. Your loved one needs to know exactly what is going on. He should be sensitive to your feelings. Be completely honest with him.
2006-11-29 21:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your loved one what is goin on then have a chat with both of them, get it out into the open, and then decide from there
2006-11-29 20:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by calico_gurl2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes talk to him about it!its ok to ask for distance .
2006-11-29 20:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you posted, he will understand
2006-11-29 20:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Tanya :] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋