I'm in my late thirties and she appears to be in her mid twenties. I would like to see this girl back but I have no clue how! And if by some miracle I do, how do I go about makeing her aquaintance and let her know how I feel about her. How do I know I would'nt be rejected?
2006-11-29 12:56:52 · 18 answers · asked by Observer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you aren't in love. You are lusting after this woman. You have to know someone to really love them. Introduce yourself, if you see her again. Strike up a conversation. You know, she might have a boyfriend or be married. You have to talk to her and find out.
2006-11-29 12:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I've been Christened but I know very little about religion. I don't understand why there is this rule that some religions cannot love others. It sounds so silly. If you truly are in love then why can't you be open about it and do what you want? If God really is this almighty being then what is his problem if two people who love each other unconditionally want to be together and even spend the rest of their lives together? Were's the harm in that? I certainly don;t see any. I thought religion was pure and good. Why doesn't it allow love between a happy devoted couple? If I were you I'd just go for it and forget religion because personally I think love is more important and you should be able to have feelings for each other without feeling pressure from this God who is supposed to be all loving, all glorious. If you church and families dis-own you then your love should keep you together and if they see this in action then maybe they will be forgiving. If not then I know it's harsh but then that is their problem and they are in the wrong not you.
2016-05-23 03:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is everything however seeing someone on the train might seem a little awkward especially if you have to see each other regular. You don't want to be too aggressive. Sit next to her and start off with suggesting and giving her a good book u really like and tell her it's something for her to read to keep her busy on the trip back and forth. Then tell her to have the book and you can talk about it when shes finished. This may open up a conversation to see what shes interested in. Continue to talk to her and keep it down to not scare her off. That should help u make your move.
2006-11-29 13:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know...thats part of dating. Being rejected and getting dates...take a chance! The worst she'll say is no and even that wont kill you, I promise.
But consider not coming on too strong...you havent met her so saying your in love with her is a little too much at this time. If you see her again approach her and ask her out...get to know her then you can consider dropping the L word.
!Good Luck!
2006-11-29 13:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kori S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeeks, you have to be delicate with this or else you'll be edging into stalkerland. Just write her a note: "Hi, I've seen you on the train a couple times and I would like to meet you. If you would like to meet me, then give me a call sometime. If not, then don't worry I will respect your wishes and not bother you. Cheers, (sign your full name and phone number)." Give your workplace too so she does not think you are a random stalker.
Ps - I forgot to add. Attach your note to a rose and hand it to her one day. Don't linger around. Give her time to think about it and let her initiate the contact. Strange men can be scary if they are pushy so back off if she does not respond.
2006-11-29 13:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going to the same train station that you went to today like whenever is possible. Make eye contact with her and smile. IF she smiles back then maybe you can add a hi, whats your name and ask her for her number. If she seems confident. If shes shy and intimidated forget about it, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
Good luck
2006-11-29 13:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe that a man in his late thirties is dumb enough to think he fell in "Love" with a girl he saw on a train......and never even spoke to. Come on, relieve your sexual frustrations and stop acting like a retarded teenager.
2006-11-29 13:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out for breakfast. Then go on from there. Most relationships don't work when your in diffrent age groups so find out what she likes. Be nice and gentle . Just talk about simple things like music or T.V.
2006-11-29 13:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by iceprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know you wouldn't be rejected - that's part of life. If you want to see her again, start slow. Tell her you've noticed her and would like to buy her a coffee...
2006-11-29 12:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another perfect occasion for the song: You Are Beautiful from James Blunt......
2006-11-29 13:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋