Okay.So i havent had my first kiss.my best friend forevr is going out with the guy i like.alot! and i really want him to be my first kiss..and i wanna move fast.i am not scared to kiss him anymore.and i wanna take him to the movies and makeout.but him and my bffl havent even huged! HELP! what do i do?
2006-11-29 12:49:47 · 13 answers · asked by abcd1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go kiss a bullfrog and maybe you can find a prince. Leave your friends BF out of it. Lose the thoughts. You should hate yourself for even thinking about him like that when he's dating your best friend.
2006-11-29 12:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by spag 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
... That's your friends BF no matter how much you like him, back off. Respect the friendship you have and be a classy girl. there are a lot of cute guys and some will end up dating your friends...
lesson #1 in the girl buddy rules. DON'T STEAL HER MAN. don't kiss him, don't flirt, don't fantasize. That dude is taken turn a blind eye over him
2006-11-30 16:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg sounds just like a situation i have. i to have a friend that is going out with another guy but likes his bff, and i like that new guy, unfortunately my friend gets any guy she wants. I'm they shy type so I'm not so sure he'd like me but if i were u i would wait and see how long it lasts for them and once they break-up ( and these sort of relationships dont usually last long) then once they break up (cuz u dont wanna kill ur friends feelings) and then after a while drop some hints for him.
ps. wait a while after they break up beacuse then ur friend will still be upset at u for waiting so little before dating her X
2006-11-29 20:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about the guy. i mean, you guys ARE best friends forever so you should know each others secrets and wants. maybe ask her to give the guy hints. or just tell him straight out how you feel. if you're too shy and think you cant do that, right him a note saying that you really really like him. tell him that you cant stop thinking about him and all that. or just plain ask him out. then throw him hints yourself. im sure if the guy knew you liked him, he'd think of you a lot more and maybe start to like you back. good luck!
2006-11-29 20:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by vrules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't currently. If you would do that to you bbfl while she was dating him, you would no longer have a bbfl trust me. Even when they break up it will only cause hurt with ehr to see you having fun with him..unless of course she broke up with him.
Take it from a 9th grader.
2006-11-29 20:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by ∞ Mixed § Peanuts ∞ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen he is your best friends BF you don't ask him out. Until..... he and her don't date and then you ask him out and go for the rebound. And if you want to have a good relationship you can't aslo rush. ( Trust it from a girl thats had lots of kisses and boyfrieds!!!! :-)
2006-11-29 20:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your time. Don't rush into even a first kiss.
2006-11-29 20:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by Terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sugest you find someone else becuz its not nice to kiss ur good friends boyfreinds because friends are real important in lyfe so i suggest you find a differnt guy
2006-11-29 20:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by OutLawZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes ur bestfriend? i don't think so, a best friend wouldn't kiss/makeout with their bestfriend's boyfriend. Your acting selfish, if u do decide to go on with this.
2006-11-29 21:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to think about the fact that it is your friends BF I can tell that you are young....but you should learn "girl oath" early!!!
2006-11-29 20:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋