What would you do in this situation?

Question

You're 20-21 and you go to college but still go home to your parents during vacation.

Your mom sleeps in your room on your bed when you're away at college because your dad won't let her sleep in the same bed with him because he thinks she snores(which she doesn't at all)((They're still married)

But when you come home during holidays or vacation, she sleeps on this mat on the floor. You don't like it.

What would you do in this situation? Get her to sleep in your bed and you can sleep on the floor which you wouldn't mind at all?(you're female if you wanted to know)

Suggestions?

Answer 1

Either accept it and move on or start getting a hotel room whe you visit. If they are happy, it's none of your business,

Answer 2

Give her the bed and take the mat or sleep on the sofa in the living room. It's only for a little while anyway. Or, have a talk with Dad and see where he's coming from. He's the one with the problem; maybe HE should sleep in the dog house or somewhere else.

Answer 3

Yes, I would allow your mother to sleep in your bed while you are there. That would be the most respectful thing to do.
In all reality, if it were me or my mom, she would have kicked him out of the bed for being a jerk. If he doesn't want her to sleep with him, he'd be sleeping on the couch. It sounds like your mom is being walked all over. Help her get some esteem back, and you should also talk to your dad about his behavior. If they get along otherwise, then this is a little issue, but if they also can't seem to live together, divorce may be the best thing for them. People grow apart sometimes...if they don't want divorce, then they need help finding their love again.

Answer 4

would your dad let her sleep in their bed while you're there? if not, is there room in your bed for you and your mom? if not, could you get one of those little fold away beds for when you visit? it's sad that someone has to sleep on the floor. how about an air mattress?!! I think I would go with that one! you can inflate it, sleep on it, let the air out, and put it away.
if all else fails I would sleep on the floor. I lost my mom, but I love her so much, and I would never have let her sleep on the floor.

Answer 5

I wouldn't mind 2 months of sacrifice sleeping on the floor just to give my mother who sacrificed 9 months for me a little comfort on my bed. I wouldn't mind giving up my bed. But I would try some over the counter remedy to solve her sleeping problems perhaps even ask the doctors advice so she could very bond with my father in their room! For mean time, i'd bond with her while i share my room with her ;)

Answer 6

Well, that is the saddest thing I have heard. If there is a couch, why not one sleep on the couch the other on the bed. Should your Dad have the larger bed have him sleep in your bedroom and you and your Mom sleep in the bigger bed. Good Luck, my prayers are with you.

Answer 7

Tell your mom how your dad's actions are hurting you & tell her to sleep in your bed. I would let you dad know how you stand on this. If you can't talk to him send him a letter or get the help of a family member.
My X did that to me & it hurt my 2 grown children. I know I felt like a dog. In fact most dogs have it better than I did. Oh yea he has moved on to somebody much younger that don't know his dark side yet.
Not that this will happen to your mom & dad.

Answer 8

I would tell your dad that mum doesn't snore, and to try being sensible.
If that doesn't work, then get a mattress of some sort to put on the floor, and you sleep there.

Answer 9

Let her have the bed, you are young, you can deal with the mat. Give her some caring and respect, obviously they are having problems.

Answer 10

I would give my mom the bed as i am only on vacation, get one of those air beds that you can use.

Answer 11

well, thats pathetic, let her sleep on the bed, you sleep on the couch, then your mom will be in a good mode in the morning and times like that, be nice to you