Ive been dating this guy for only a month... but he really is into me... Its a high school relationship... hes 18 and im 16... but he told me he isnt a virgin, and it freaked me out when he said that... and i think he might be gay, because other people think he is gay... but how do i break his heart, without too much pain for him???
2006-11-29 12:14:09 · 12 answers · asked by rlizzyp707 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my. Well, this may sound silly...but be honest. Tell him you're just not ready to go steady!
2006-11-29 12:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by javaluv2002 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having had girls break up with me, the best thing to do is a clean break. It sounds cruel, but you can't fluffy up these things. If you are half hearted it gives false hope. If you are firm in your decision, then you have to go through with it. Which is harder but better for both of you in the long run.
As a matter of course, it means nothing if people think he is gay; he may be. It's no ones' business except his. There's a lot of straight guys in touch with their feminine side, nothing wrong with that
2006-11-29 20:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Wonderpants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do it be honest, tell him exactly how you feel. He might be upset at first and be really mad at you, but hopefully he will forgive you and you two want to be best of friends in the future. And also tell him how hard this is on you and that you still care about him.
2006-11-29 20:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by seherhashmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be as honest and straightforward as you can. Finding out later that you lied to him could hurt more than the initial break up. And do it in person. Thats the best way.
2006-11-29 20:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by dancerkatarzyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat around the bush, just tell him. Even though it may seem harsh, if you come up with some fake reason or try to break it off slowly then you will just end up hurting him more.
2006-11-29 20:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is honestly no easy way to break up with someone.
but follow your heart, and if you believe that this is what you want .. then do it.
if not, and you like him a lot, then go for it =]
hope that helped!
<3
2006-11-29 20:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do it be honest, tell him exactly how you feel. He might be upset at first, but hopefully he will still want to be friends.
2006-11-29 20:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooo....tell him that u aren't ready 2 countinue this relationship and say that he's relle nice, but u can't go on knowing something that makes u uncomfortable. good luck!
2006-11-29 20:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by bbball luvr_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard but break up with him in person cuz otherwise he'll think you were too scared and he'll be even sadder.
2006-11-29 20:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ci Ci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seat down with him face to face and talk to him about it, him may actually understand
2006-11-29 20:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋