are my ideals good?
I believe guys should stick to one girl and love her for all eternity never cheat on her and just be committed for life. i dunno if its right cause i was like that with this girl i like and she hates it she is afraid to commit so do answer this what should i believe in and dont say god >_>
2006-11-29 11:39:52 · 22 answers · asked by NOOB 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should believe in what ever it is you belive in. If you believe in eternal love, then so be it. If you find a girl who is afraid to commit, leave her. You should also know that although one love for the rest of your life is probably not going to happen. You should remain faithful if you have a partner, don't get me wrong. It's just chances are you will experience love with more than one woman. If things don't work out though, your beliefs are not a license to stalk.
2006-11-29 11:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ideals are good, but your probably too young to know which girl you want to spend eternity with! dating is a time to meet alot of different people to find out what you really like in a person and how you can be in different relationships. Of course, once you are in a relationship, comittment is important, but until you are married, then breaking up is not a bad thing if it's not right for BOTH of you.
2006-11-29 11:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Texanborn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the greatest set of morals! I also believe that once you find the right person, you should stick with them for the rest of your life and be committed! Maybe your girl just wasn't mature enough to handle that yet.
2006-11-29 11:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's capable of that, fine, but I think the grand majority of guys aren't. Personally, I don't want a guy to feel that way about me. Intensity like that in a relationship context always freaks me out. That's why I'm staying single for life — it's just that much easier.
2006-11-29 12:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish there were more guys like you! Pretty much every woman wishes more guys were like you. Your belief and your attitude is what we like!
Now, in this girls case.... it probably isn't about you.. More than likely, she was hurt in the past and is scared of being hurt again and, therefor, is scared to commit. Chances are, in your case, you just have to be patience. You can't get a girl with commitment fears like that (*snaps*). You have to hold out and show that you really like her. And tell her too.
Maybe you should try discussing it with her and seeing how she feels and why and telling her how you feel in general and how you feel about how she feels.
Good luck.
And just to be specific.... I'm talking about a relationship here.... not marriage or sex.
2006-11-29 11:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by shortnspunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer to you is. If you are about to get married then yes you will love eachother for the rest of your life. But if you're not about to, girls aren't ready for that step into life because they just want to actually find there ONE guy, you know? So don't rush or seem like it, 'cause some girls aren't just like that.
2006-11-29 11:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I don't believe in sex before marriage, though.. It's wrong. So yes, you should stick to one girl after marriage. Before marriage, date more than one by all means. But after marriage, well, that's a commitment. You don't back down. It shows character and strength to love them in good and bad, not divorce them when you have a couple struggles.
2006-11-29 11:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats right a boy should stick to a girl and a girl should stick to a boy, until they break up. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-29 11:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anaid Villa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 23:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should believe what you want, and if she isn't willing to commit to a great guy like you then she probably isn't the one you should waste your belief on
~hope that helps,
slacker
(and maybe like some girls she doesn't wanna commit cause she thinks she's protecting herself)
2006-11-29 11:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋