then they ask me if i am gay or bisexual. do they sense this are they just making guesses because i am not very aggressive in pursuing girls....what gives?
2006-11-29 11:35:54 · 23 answers · asked by drisco21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um...maybe your gay?
2006-11-29 11:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by littlehey5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should be open and honest with yourself. Obviously these fantasies are a bit of a big deal in a conscious or sub conscious way for you. Before you pursue your next girl or even let her pursue you, I would try out those fantasies. And if you aren't into the whole guy thing, then eh, no harm done. But if they do turn out to be something, then you know, go on. Best of luck to you.
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2006-11-29 11:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by sarahosaurus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you, so I can't answer this question very accurately, but I'll try.
Maybe they ask this because you give off the homo/bisexual sort of 'vibe'. It's not a bad thing, but girls or anyone could normally think this if a guy takes care of himself, dresses nicely, talks about certain things, the activities he does, or just his personality.
But if you're having homosexual fantasies, then maybe you are gay or bisexual. & there's nothing wrong with that. If you really think you are, then don't date females just to try & 'cover it up' sort of thing.
If you don't know if you are gay though, you could try going out on a date with a male, unless, of course, it isn't really what you want to do.
Just try around with different things.
2006-11-29 11:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it's the way you perceive yourself. You may not be gay, but If you have metrosexual ways then girls may think you're kinda gay. Many girls like to see a little aggressiveness, but they also want a gentlemen.
2006-11-29 11:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by tweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think ur a bisxeual cause i think u have been thinking about gay guys and stufff like that
the reason the girls ant u as a friend is because i think u still have to find the right person 4 ur self
2006-11-29 11:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well they might ask this only because maybe you have some feminine qualities. It all depends on you... are you gay or not? Just because you've had some gay fantasies doesn't mean your gay... maybe you're just curious.
2006-11-29 11:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by ezlayedback 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have those thoughts, women are the orignals and can sense immitators anyday. You may not intend to act in that manner but your voice, conversing, walk or since of style can become flags that draw UNWANTED attention.
2006-11-29 13:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Miz Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, men do not admit to it because socially they can not think of stuff like that. I know a few. It maybe your persona. Women expect men to act a certain way(socially) when they do not or have simular fem ways or interests that reaction you are getting is common. Sounds to me like you grew up in a house of all girls sisters , mother.I have a friend like that he is totally straight. It will take finding that certain someone special for you who enjoys a man who "gets" her.
2006-11-29 11:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be such a femme girl. be a man stop talking like such a femme girl. dont hold there purses. stop talking about your girly feelings. lower your voice. don't walk so prissy. stop tucking in your shirt. stop being creepy. your giving off a femme quality. i was with a man who i thought any day was gonna tell me he was gay. but hes not. he never got anything but ugly fat girls. except me im gorgious. don't be so metro. i don't know what to tell you. this is bad to say but i know know to many guys like you.
stop being what you think they want. we all dont want a** holes. what we really want is a man we know will take care of us in every way. good genes. we want healthy strong kids. try to catch up with the pack.
2006-11-29 11:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by amber 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are having gay fantasies, you probably are at least bisexual, and you are subconsciously giving off a homosexual vibe, which most women will pick up on.
2006-11-29 11:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey, they can sense it. what the real question should be is, why are you still trying to date women? be true to your self. if you feel like you're gay, why not explore that part of your life. don't do anything dangerous, like go off with someone you don't know, etc, but safely explore it. don't try to be something you're not.
2006-11-29 11:42:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋