If you are really interested in helping me solve this dilema ( and I really appreciate it if you are), please see the details on the previous questions on the same topic under my profile. Thanks.!!
2006-11-29 11:31:12 · 17 answers · asked by carpediem3000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's "pre-school" for goodness sakes!! You've said that she is nice and sweet and you even like her ... you should be happy that he's with some one who is like that, to be around your son!! It could be so much worse! Your son is not going to be in her class after this, so just get through it for now and move on! Think about your son, and how happy he is that his dad has some one and that makes the whole situation better for everyone!
2006-11-29 11:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so I read that other comments and I understand what you are saying as far as worrying about how the teacher may respond towards your son if things dont work out between the father and her. And I have to say you have a point. If he has only known her for 2 months I feel that it is too soon to allow his son to see him with her. It hasn't been long enough for him to know if there will be a lasting relationship between them and then your son will be left asking questions - What happened to Ms. ???? why doesn't she come over any more. Men dont think about these things at times. When me and my husband split up, we had an agreement that we would not expose our son to anyone we were dating until we were sure the path that the relationship was going to take. Granted you cant predict the future, but he has not known her long enough to say where their relationship will end up. If I were you i would tell the father that he needs to only see the teacher when your son is not around. I hope this helps.
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So you need to give us more information. How long have you been seperated from your sons father? I only ask this because if it has been longer than 1-2 years you should really care less about who he is dating, not unless you still have feelings for him and want to be with him. It is hard to let go sometimes but if you are still holding on to the hope that you guys will get back together it will hurt to see this teacher when you pick your son up from school. If you are over him - let him live is life and you live yours.
2006-11-29 11:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite, he would desire to have a minimum of enable you to already know. i'm a preschool instructor and that i'd desire to understand what's happening in a toddler's existence, so i will extra effective understand the toddler in college. i do no longer desire something own, in basic terms a "his dad is relationship somebody new so he could be clingy for slightly." according to probability the instructor replaced into embarrassed approximately it, that's why she did no longer deliver it up. If the college has a coverage related to it, they might have wanted to stay away from it being public. How does your son get alongside with the instructor? If that's a sturdy relationship, that's massive. yet whilst Michael breaks up along with her and then Desmond has to work out her in college and ask embarrassing questions, that's something that's relatively helpful to communicate over with the instructor and your husband. (Set an appointment, nevertheless. %. up and drop off can get relatively chaotic, as you have probable observed, and he or she needs to appreciate what the communicate would be approximately). sturdy luck.
2016-10-13 09:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Preschool is not competitive or serious. Preschoolers are practically oblivious to the ramifications of their father dating their teachers. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. I don't see it doing a whole lot of harm except make the other moms gossip.
2006-11-29 11:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read the previous issues. The biggest problem is not him dating her per say it is his father allowing him to lay in bed with them. seeing that it is preschool she can not do much damage as far as holding him back or anything like that. If it is a big issue maybe see if you can have him put in another class, or even another school. seeing them in bed together is definitely not good though he should be more discreet. Good Luck.
2006-11-29 11:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you let your son's father do that.
he ought to be more aware of his child's edimication, rather than being a mack daddy. It is sending the wrong message to his child regarding sexuality and controlling said urges. At least wait until the child is out of that grade/class.
Educating your child at home with values is paramount.
2006-11-29 11:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Pat B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it is probably legal. You could always make a quick call to a lawyers office. If the answer is yes, it is legal, the call should be free. If it is not legal, they would then invite you to come in. Then you'd have to pay.
sammie
2006-11-29 11:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose that is all right, just as long as he keeps his relationship professional and does not use it to help his son succeed in class.
2006-11-29 11:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by ravensfan172003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should switch Teachers and tell the principla whats going on.. b/c its not fair that you have to see her.. you can't help human feelings, and who is to say she is not going to give you trouble.
2006-11-29 11:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by yo mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should let the poor man get on with his life. if the kid is 10 or older he will get over it but if he is younger talk to your son dad about how you feel
2006-11-29 11:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Stacey l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋