My girlfriend is too jealous that is the main reason why my last relationship ended and she dosen't believe that I am being faithful just because I have female friends,and because I party a lot. And to add to insult she dosen't trust me a bit, should I just drop her or work things out?
2006-11-29 11:26:38 · 36 answers · asked by rudy t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't get why people that live a certain lifestyle try to make room for commited relationships....if you're still living that lifestyle why don't you just stay single and mingle? Then you won't have to worry about your stupid girlfriend
2006-11-29 11:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by ManderAnne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends. Sometimes just how you word yourself when explaining, it can be taken the wrong way. So when explaining to her what you do and when and reassuring her all the time. May dampen her high volume of jealousy. But all of us have that gut feeling, and well if the relationship is worth it to you. Then cut down on the parting or take one of her friends are relatives with you or even her and show her how you handle yourself. Be open with communication and the trust will build itself. If you must go out w/o her. Call her every half hour or hour and reassure her and let her know shes on your mind all the time. She'll stop being so jealous perhaps!
2006-11-29 11:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Patsy Cline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 22:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I understand where she is coming from maybe. Women know women! I know that if a woman wants you, she will do anything to get you. ANYTHING!! And guys fall for these stupid things we do. She may have done something to get you that you don't know about and thinks, more than likely knows, that some girl is going to try to do the same thing. I don't like all of my boyfriend's female friends because I know that they all have kissed him or something when they were in high school and it still bothers me, but if I didn't think he was such a catch, I wouldn't worry. So think of it as a compliment until she starts doing the fatal attraction crap then leave her alone, but tell her that you are not going to take that from her or you are going to dump her. Say it nicer than that though. That will be like throwing cold water on her in 30 below zero weather.
2006-11-29 11:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that maybe you should think about things. Realize that trust plays a major part in any relationship. Without trust and honestly you have nothing. It is up to you to try to figure out if you would like to stay unhappy or move on to something better. Just time to think
2006-11-29 11:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Missy_Eye's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, in a relationship you both should be able to trust eachother and tell eachother things.. obviously you both don't have that. You should break up with her, because if there is no trust there is no point it wont work. But once you have a gf the whole partying thing should stop, no wonder shes worried. Try talking to her but if all fails break up.
2006-11-29 11:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by hypocrisy_00 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say that you party alot and have alot of girlfriends.... Does she have something to be jealous of??
I was a very jealous girlfriend but did trust my man completely (just not the sleazy girls hanging around). There is a difference!!! If she is unreasonably jealous and you fight about it then its not worth it. If she just loves you heaps then you should try to cool the partying with the other girls and make a go of it, that is if you love her to.
I have been married now for 11 years and still going strong.
2006-11-29 11:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by curly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you even really ready for a relationship? It doesn't sound like it. If you party a lot, you're still seeking something else. Neither of you sound happy. You don't have much if there's no trust.
Have you ever offered to take her out with you? Does she know all of your girl friends? If you want to save your relationship, involve her more; if not, keep doing what you're doing, but break-up with her sooner than later. And I'm not saying you will, but don't cheat on her. You'll feel like crap.
2006-11-29 11:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by featherives 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Usually, when a guy does this, he's the cheater and the 2nd option may be he has self esteem issues.
NOW, when a chick does it, she has low self esteem, btw (her ex may have partied and had female friends and cheated on her) and the 2nd option may be she's cheating on you.
Try to find out what her past was like. If she was cheated on buy a guy that did things like you do, then there's your answer and it's up to you to work it out. If not, she's a cheater. Drop her.
2006-11-29 11:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Valentine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over. Tell her what you think.
Look at the bright side: she cares for you enough for being jealous. Appeal to her generosity, trust her and ask her to trust you back... tell her you like the way she thinks of you more trustworthy now than before, even if she isn't and she will!!!
Good luck, pal, and be sure that if you dare do this, you chose the right girl 'cause you can be brave with her, and therefore for her.
2006-11-29 11:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by (/\_SomniuM_/\) -AxelRiv 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Throw in the towel. Jealous=controlling and a controlling girlfriend is the last thing any young single guy needs. It will drive you mad!
2006-11-29 11:30:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋