Last night i was with her at the christmas parade our town had, but at school i did not go to her at lunch, and where we usually meet after sixth period. she thought i was ignoring her and wrote me message saying that she felt unwanted by me and my friends, i did not mean to do this to her, I really like her, so whats the best wayto say sorry to a girl.
2006-11-29 11:24:49 · 22 answers · asked by robert m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's easy, but us guys make it really hard, just talk to her in person (thats important) and tell her, straight up, that your sorry for what ever you did to hurt her, but you need to tell her what you did that made her upset, you just cant walk up and say,"hey I'm sorry, and stuff" what you need to say is, "I'm sorry for kicking your dog" or "I'm sorry that I stole all your parents spoons" just come out and say it, right to the point don't beat around the bush, say it from the heart
Good Luck
2006-11-29 11:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize and be sincere. But the trick is, you also need to keep it somewhat light. No "I am SOOOO sorry....PLEASE forgive me" .... none of that crap. Cuz the fact is....you did nothing wrong. If your apology is too over the top it , 1. increases her drama level. and that is no good. she will make everything into a big drama. and 2. she'll expect an apology over EVERY little thing you do AND dont do that she thinks you did.
Just keep it light. Say youre sorry and that you didnt mean it that way. That you care about her but that once in a while you like to hang with your friends too. Then make a joke or something light and tell her you'll make it up to her by getting her a double scoop of hagan daaz ice cream. (again, nothing to big cuz it just makes it seem like you did something terrible , ...when you didnt.)
2006-11-29 11:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by wizexel22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..what was ur reason for not going to her at lunch..and going to ur meeting spot? Just tell her that you're sorry and explain why you were avoiding her yesterday. Tell her you didn't mean to ignore her..cards are always kinda cute so why don't you give her a little I'm Sorry card..haha..just an idea. Good Luck 2 You!
2006-11-29 11:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and ask if you could talk to her for a moment. And explain that you didn't mean to hurt her feelings. That you actually do like her, but that weren't trying to ignore her, and you're sorry if she felt that way.
2006-11-29 11:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are very sorry, and tell her why you didn't meet her, or go to her at lunch. the best way is to be honest, don't lie to her. she'll understand, If she really likes you
2006-11-29 11:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this happed to me not even a week ago! i would find a time,and sit down with her and say sry i love.and kiss her.then tell her she is butiful.and no one in the world is pretty and smarter than her.then she would be better i bet u but if there is a chance she isn't i would get flowers.good luck
~♥jamie♥~
2006-11-29 11:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you're sorry! It's so simple. A single rose never hurt either.
2006-11-29 11:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by featherives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very, very difficult and complicated. Here are the steps
Step 1: say "im sorry"
that's it.
2006-11-29 11:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be direct. Tell her you're sorry and why, but don't make a big deal about it. And tell her to her face.
2006-11-29 11:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by Dklotusjuggalo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some flowers and just say your sorry for whatever you did
2006-11-29 11:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by tanya m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋