In the bedroom area would you:
(a) trade them in for someone who you are more compatible with?.........
(b) stick with them and suffer in silence, and hoped that they pick up the pace with their performance?...
(c) amp it up, and pretend that they were the best lover, just so you didn't hurt their feelings?
This is just a general question to you folks...it is no reflection on my own sex life it's great.
2006-11-29 11:21:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A for sure.
2006-11-29 11:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me I'd go with B because I love my guy so much that if he wasn't the greatest in the bedroom, I wouldn't care. I love everything about him that there is no way I could throw all of that away just to find someone who was better in bed. I'd be willing to sacrifice performance in the bedroom for the true love that I have and the amazing relationship we've established.
2006-11-29 19:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the level of your relationship with this person. If you guys are in a committed relationship that may be heading towards marriage - you have to remember there are more important things than sex....BUT it is up there in the top 3. If this person is just someone that you are dating and you dont see a real future with him/her I would have to say (A) is the answer.
2006-11-29 19:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
B!!!! suffer in silence but find a lover on the side until he picks up the pace just so I dont suffer to much LOL
2006-11-29 19:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by kathernva 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dont ignore it and dont dismiss them right away or lie to them. I think the best bet is to be honest. The best sexual experiences involve communication. The two of you need to talk about what you like or dont like dont just suffer threw it. Talk to them and try to help them, maybe the person b4 you lied and told them they were really good so thats why your unsatisfied.
Good Luck
2006-11-29 19:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you love them, you should def. try to stay.
Spice it up in your own way..
Be the teacher.. besides, guys like and need to be told what you like anyways.
They are not psychic you know.
You should not suffer in the bedroom, you should try tomake it better... He may think the same about you, and he may be worried to "take it to another level" b/c of embarassment or unknowing about it.
Show him new things, tell him what you like, etc, and Im sure it will get better.
2006-11-29 19:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by yo mama 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would do none of the above. If the guy was not performing right, I would instruct him on what to do by showing him things and telling him what to do. Guys like that.
2006-11-29 19:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
None of the above, Id tell him I wanted to try different things and see if it could be helped, but I wouldnt leave, because I wouldnt be with them if I didnt love them.
2006-11-29 19:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by Bibsy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Communicate or get out of the relationship///tell him what you like and find out what he likes. If you don't get anywhere, then you just aren't a match.
2006-11-29 19:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by preciouspinkla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(d) talk to them when we weren't in bed about different things I'd like to try with them, and hope that we could work it out.
2006-11-29 19:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be GONE out the door and he would wonder where the heck i went !
2006-11-29 19:24:42 · answer #11 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋