Hi I am 13. My friend asked out this girl I really like for me, when i was in 6th grade. I told her i didnt want everyone knowing about us so she broke up with me after 3 days. I still like her i am in 8th now. What should I do she was my only girlfriend and i kissed some1 once when i was 8. PLZ HELP ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-29 11:20:06 · 12 answers · asked by Ryan S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you still really like her, let her know how you feel.
Tell her that you think it was wrong of you to not want everyone to know, & that if everyone knows, well, then, so be it.
But don't try to be with her just for the sake of being with her. Because I can tell that you're worried that you've only had one girlfriend.
But that's okay that you haven't had many. Sometimes single is the best thing.
& you're only 13, there's plenty more time for you to find yourself a nice girlfriend.
Just because you only kissed a girl once isn't anything bad, either. So don't worry about it.
You're still young.
2006-11-29 11:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well dang, if you liked her all that much, how come you didn't want anyone to know about your relationship? is she butt ugly, or something? i don't blame her for breaking up w/ you then. she sounds very mature for her age!!! and wise!!! you may still like her, but do you know for a fact she likes you? is she dating someone right now? if she's single and you want to ask her out, start out by telling her what a jerk you were by asking her to keep your relationship a secret in the first place. if you have a good reason for why you wanted it kept on the down-low, like your parents are strict and finding out would spell trouble for you, then explain the situation. make it very clear the problem was YOU and not her!!! tell her how you feel about her, and ask if she's willing to give you guys another shot. it's always good to be honest about your feelings. again, if you STILL would prefer she not tell anyone about your possible relationship, then ask yourself why you're so scared of people finding out. normally, when you like someone, you want people to know!!! k, so...good luck!!!
2006-11-29 19:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were only in 6th grade the first time, and 3 days is nuthin'.
Go ahead and ask her again. THis time, include a nice hallmark type card that speaks of friendship, then end it with
Love, (your name).
And see if she's willing to go out with you on group dates with friends, events and such with you and your family.
2006-11-29 19:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her if she wants to go see a movie again you gotta fix it, now I need help I can't even talk to girl I like.
2006-11-29 19:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Beau B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel, let her know that it's hard for you to express but she will appreciate your honesty.
Good Luck Champ, you sound like a sweetie.
2006-11-29 19:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_az_kandii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 11 and my b/f did that to me to but i came and said that i want people to know cause i like him so much and i got mad when he wanted to keep it a secret its ifending 2 girls
2006-11-29 19:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by tumblekat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still want to date her let her know that and apologze for not wanting to show her off as your gf before. Girls don't want their boyfriends to keep them a secret. It's not very flattering
2006-11-29 19:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you should just talk to her at least be her friend & just forget about what happend in the past. Good Luck! I hope she talks to you.
2006-11-29 19:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anaid Villa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to be dealing with relationships right now. you should wait until you are older. You have plenty of time.
2006-11-29 19:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be mad my boyfriend said that he didn't want any one knowing. What are you ?Ashamed to be around her.Plus your too young.
2006-11-29 19:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋