Ok, so I have been kind of going out with this guy, for the sake of the story well call him *Sam. I have been kind of going out with Sam for about a month now. And a couple weeks ago we had our first kiss and all that stuff. But lately, more than usual he has been being crude and just annoying. I guess I never really noticed it before. He still really likes me, but I really dont like him anymore. Plus dont they say, if you cant see yourself marrying the guy, dont waste your time dating him? I dont see myself marrying Sam at all. Plus there is another guy I really like. We have so much fun together and are alot alike. And the other night I was with Sam, and this other guy called and i thought.. "I would rather be with him right now". I guess the answer is pretty clear but I dont know how to go about letting Sam down. I see him every day and feel like it would be awkward around him. Please help!
2006-11-29 11:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by Marissa B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh just move on why don;t you
What an annoying f-u-c-k-i-n-g question!
2006-11-29 11:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lately, more than usual he has been being crude and just annoying... tell him that his behavior isn't what you wanted in a relationship and you need to move on with someone else. It isn't about the sake of the story of Sam ... it about how you feel ... you need to get a way from him now ...
2006-11-29 19:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by ahh4theday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really help because you said you had your "first kiss and all that stuff" with him. What does that mean? You had sex with him? If you two just kissed then just tell him that you want to be friends. Did he ask you to be in a relationship with him? If not, then you don't have to do anything, it was just a kiss. If you two did agree to be in a relationship then you need to tell him that you are not ready for the kind of relationship that he wants, and you hope that you two could still be friends because you enjoy his company. That so it won't sound like....LEAVE ME ALONE IDIOT!!! You know what I mean? I hope this helped you.
2006-11-29 19:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't like him all that much anymore, then just let him know. It's better then living a lie with him and longing for someone else.
If you're scared to hurt him or something, just let him down easily. Let him know that you just don't see it working out, and that (if you wanted to) it would be great if you could both still be friends.
Even if you don't want to be friends with him or anything of that sort, it'd be better to let him down in a kind sort of way. That way it wouldn't be as awkward as to if you were to let him down in a rude way.
2006-11-29 19:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you want it to be justified to go with the other guy, but you are right. Let sam down lightly, (don't tell him he's a douche). Only after this can you date new guy.
2006-11-29 19:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit and find someone else! There are alot of men out there just waiting for a girl like you ! Don't waste anytime on a loser!
2006-11-29 19:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to "Sam" and ask him why he's been acting like that. Tell him you'd leave him if he keeps doing this, he'll answer if he really loves you.
2006-11-29 19:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Amaris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him how u really feel about him. say that there isnt a spark between u two anmore and that u feel the relationship wont work in the future
2006-11-29 19:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by flirtygirl55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally when I want to get out of sticky situations I just reach for the cleanex, dirty sock, or a towel.
2006-11-29 19:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest and open with him ,,,, Don't try to dress it up with any frills either ,,,, Just tell him straight out that you don't want to be any more than just friends ,,,, How he reacts is up to him ,,,, you have no control over it what so ever ,,,,
2006-11-29 19:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to look out for #1 so just tell him you'll see him around.
2006-11-29 19:18:42 · answer #11 · answered by Lil' Bossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋