i cant tell if she doesnt want me but also, doesnt want me to be with anyone else.....cuase a crapload of stuff has happend between us like we went on a date and it was amazing, but about a week after, she said she wanted just freinds and i accepted that. but about 2 weeks later, she says she wants to kiss me again......so i ask her.....do u like me? she says no.....:/ anyways, a ftew days ago, she got back frum out of the country on vacation and gave me a present she had and said she missed me and huggged me. she acts like she likes me...but she says she doesnt...is she keeping me on the line while she tries to find someone? or is she not wanting to be with me but not wanting anyone else to be with me? what do i do? and ask her wont work...iv tried, she wont budge....i need help thanks
2006-11-29 11:13:48 · 9 answers · asked by Duff M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she doesn't know exactly what she wants, she's not sure. give it time and let things go by itself. I think that she likes to be around you but something keeps her of getting more involved so ... time :)
good luck
2006-11-29 11:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Alexis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is spend as much time with her as you can, treat her like you would treat her if she was your girlfriend, with out the physical part, one thing you could do, and it has worked in the past, but its difficult to do, is straight up, ask her what up? tell her you like her let her know everything, and tell her that she's sending you mixed signals, and tell her she needs to make her mind up, because you can't do this chase thing with her no more, and you either want her, or you want to move on, and then cut her off, and see her come knocking at your door, it will happen, she might be a girl who likes the chase more than she does the relationship, but I bet she doesn't want to loose you, but are you willing to risk it?
2006-11-29 11:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first boyfriend was the top of his class before I moved in. He was practically like Voltaire amongst the Neanderthals, and his intelligence went beyond school-related things. I'm [allegedly] a super crazy-smart girl, so intelligence is really attractive to me. I love a guy who will challenge me--intellectually, musically, or even in moral matters like honesty and stuff. But intelligence is only one factor, really. He also has to be physically attractive and socially functional.
2016-05-23 03:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a Really Super Smart guy.
2006-11-29 11:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by bravesfn47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think shes playing hard to get with you and your falling for it. She probably likes you but says no because shes playing a game with you. All you have to do is make her jealous and see her response like what the girl above me said. I hope you figure it out and GOOD LUCK:-)
2006-11-29 11:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is keeping you as an option, what you should do is try and find someone else maybe not serious just enough to make her jealous, and don't give in right away if she wants you back make her work for it otherwise you take away the excitement of the chase
2006-11-29 11:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget asking her if she likes you --- why not ask her out (during the day) for a sightsee or a drink together (coffee tea soft drinks) then just walk and talk --- its not a date in the accepted sense but it does get you together and talking
2006-11-29 11:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants you to want to be with her and no one else. She said that she is not interested, so move on.
2006-11-29 11:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinks she likes ya Either that or her friend likes ya sometimes us girls are shy to tell their feelings but that doesn't mean she doesn't like ya it means she is shy
2006-11-29 11:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by funkymonkey3310 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋