Agh! I'm kinda in love with a guy who's engaged. it just about killed me when i found out he just got engaged. the big problem is that i hardly ever get to see this guy. i wish i could just have a chance to talk to him for 5 minutes. but i dont. i dont even want to move on, i want to hold onto him as long as i can. somebody talk some sense into me!!
2006-11-29 11:09:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aubrey My dear,
So sorry that you feel like this but you know you are just going to have to move on and let him live his life. There are so many more guys around, I am sure. You will find the one for you when the time is right. This will pass with time...do things for you that make you feel good to help you change your thoughts away from him. Best wishes my dear =]
2006-11-29 11:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mamma Mia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adam Sandler sang it best in The Wedding Singer.
Love stinks.
Do you love him enough to let him go? That's the real test right there. Gently tell him how you feel. Once. Then let him know that you're very happy for him. Unless that's a lie. If it is a lie, I would suggest spending a few more nights under the stars pondering what love truly is. Otherwise, you have to swallow your tears and move on. If you have any love for yourself, you will find what you need elsewhere.
Ask yourself this though. Would you, hypothetically, want to be with a guy that would break an engagement at your request? He gave his vow, his word of honor, to marry someone else. If he breaks his word for you, he can break his word for another girl.
2006-11-29 11:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ellis26 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he just got engaged then he probably don't feel the same way but if it so important that you can't move on then maybe you should take just 5 minutes and tell him
2006-11-29 11:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by kelly b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come On! I know you have to be a better person than that. He's engaged so move on. You obviously have no chance with this guy and if he's engaged he OBVIOUSLY has NO FEELINGS for you what-so-ever! Let it go hunny and find a better single guy to obsess over!!
2006-11-29 11:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by bktp37 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Let him go and move on honey! There is someone out there for you just keep looking! If he is already engaged he is GONE! Look for the love of your life......meaning someone who will be able to love you back.
2006-11-29 11:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell him how you feel and leave the rest to him. It's up to him who he wants to be with. If he leaves her or he decides to be with you whatever happens you need to move on with or without him.
2006-11-29 11:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by vato 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STUPID...STUPID...STUPID. Stop it, once he is engaged its pretty much a done deal, you can always say, i like you if things dont work out let me know. and then go.....go away. dont upset his new fiance and the life she has already put effort into.
would you want someone to do that to you?
2006-11-29 11:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its now or never........... when he is finally married and he breaks your heart, it will naturally knock some sense into you, but if it were me this is what I would do
RUN RUN RUN RUN>>>>>>>>>>>>> and don't look back, he must be happy, if he wasn't he would have told you.
2006-11-29 11:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All i can say is dont go ruining a happy family, how would you feel if someone did that to you?
2006-11-29 11:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_az_kandii 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's engaged; he has already found someone he truely is in love with.
2006-11-29 11:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by Zach S 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋