I have recently started liking a friend as more than a friend. He knows that. My friend today asked him if he would like to go to the graduation with me....and he said no! (Don't worry she wasn't lying, I was there) Well, should I ask him myself...or just keep being his friend??? Or should I ask him when the grad. is closer??
2006-11-29 11:08:14 · 15 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorrry for the moron that anwsered first! first of all young lady if one is goingt to act as an adult one must deside what kind of adult one wants to be, some addults handle siguashions like this like thay were in hight school, some dont, a Grown up (by that I mean some one that has actuley learned that thay are worth something and have noting to prove and have no desire to play games with any one elce, would simpley ask him, (he may feel unconfortalbe and feel it is his place to do the asking) however this has gone by the way side and he needs to get with the program if hes going to grow up some day and live in real world, if he declinds (if he is truley your friend he will tell you the reason the real reason ) again no games if he is not then who knows what he will say, in all likleyhood he will be an adalesnet young man that has not idea of how to tell the truth if he wanted to! (most men never grow out of that by the way) if this is the case you will again get who knows what, as a responce, having said all this I will say witch is more inportant to you getting him to the prom or being and learning to be a decent grown up! if you do deside to ask you as a grown up must be prepared for WHAT EVER the respoce is, and be strong enought to handle the truth if it is given, Personley I hope you have enought self confidece in yourself to have the strenth to be honist with your feeling no matter if thay are returned or not! the thing to always rember is no feeling with in one self needs acclogment or rashionlaion or approval for that matter onley the actions that come from them, if it is true love it wont matter if it is returned any way you will just want him to be happy with who ever he chouses to be with, if its you good for you if not then its someting you must be perpared to live with untill it passes or it dosent, (probley will thought Very few get to experince that love that never passes) any way if you dont take actuion you will never know. and otther peoples words are never ever as good as yours! no guts no glory! in the future try to not let other pepole talk for you. its hard enought for two people to understand exactley what is being said let alone three or four or a rummor in a croud
2006-11-29 11:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Bern 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait to graduation gets closer
2006-11-29 19:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was his alternate ego...Get him alone and ask for an explaination. If he already knows you like him, let him know with words. Tell him you like him and it would mean alot if he came to graduation with you, but you would understand if he doesn't feel the same and you would be ok with remaining friends.
2006-11-29 19:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by pheobe920 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should of asked him yourself the first time. you may have blew your chance. I think you should now go up to him and say something like hey i heard you do want to go to the graduation with me " in a joking manor" oh come on it will be fun. and if he still say no keep him as a friend not a stalker.
2006-11-29 19:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by whynot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you was standing there when he told her no then maybe you showed just leave it at the fact you 2 are just friends. i dont know how long you have been friends but sometimes it better to just have them as friends then nothing at all. maybe you need to talk to him and ask him why he said he didnt want to go with you but dont be pushy u may end up losing him altogether. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-29 19:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by whiteangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him more. Talk to him alot, hang out and stuff. Do friend stuff. When he knows you a lot better and closer ot the time, maybe then IF U ASK URSELF, then he will def say YES!!! :)
good luck....and dont get to disappointed or sad...its natural...he just want to get to know you. Dont worry, itll work out!
2006-11-29 19:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must remember this: He is a guy. When guys say no, they mean no. When women say no, they sometimes mean yes. See the difference? Don't worry dear, there's somebody wonderful waiting for you out there. Maybe right under your nose.
2006-11-29 19:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u have grown closer to him, and u want to go to grad. with him, if he says no don't take it personally he probably just wants to remain friends, and not get torn apart
2006-11-29 19:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by michelle P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him yourself, when the time is right. This gives him more time to think about it. Maybe he thought your friend was kidding around?? Though I think you should ask him, otherwise you will regret it afterwards.
Would you rather try & fail, or regret?
Hope it all works out!
2006-11-29 19:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by hypocrisy_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me...i'd never ask a guy out that turned down my friend. that would put strain on our friendship...but you're not me. talk to your friend and ask her she'd she feel if you did. if it would hurt her feelings leave him alone. men come and go but friendships are supposed to last. if she really wouldn't mind, you should know your friend by now, then go for it. but go to her first, it's good friendship etiquette. but if you do ask him do it now, if you wait til it's closer to the day he could already have a date.
2006-11-29 19:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋