A lot of people answered the 1st time I asked this and I think I need to clarify some things. My son's dad doesn't need my permission to date someone, but I would expect he would get my permission before he dated a woman we have a mutual relationship with......our son's teacher. Also, I actually like the woman. She's very sweet and smart and my son likes her a lot, but this is his teacher. What if they break up? Will she take this out on our son? Is it appropriate that when he spends the night while he's visiting Daddy, he wakes up (because he always wakes up very very very early) and sees the teacher half dressed? My son's father has had other girlfriends in the past and it doesn't bother me at all......but the teacher thing is KILLING ME!
2006-11-29 10:58:28 · 10 answers · asked by carpediem3000 3 in Education & Reference ➔ Preschool
As a former teacher, I don't think it would be appropriate at all for a teacher to date a student's parent. It is a huge conflict of interest. You are justified in your feelings and you have very valid points and concerns about the issue.
2006-11-29 11:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were the teacher I wouldn't have agreed to the date in the first place, I think that she should be using better judgment. Perhaps when your son is no longer in her class than they could begin dating, but I think it is a definite conflict of interests and very unprofessional on her part.
2006-11-30 04:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a preschool & primary school teacher, yes some of the fathers are single fathers & man are they damn right gorgeous but I would never date anyone of them.Reason been if that child has a problem how you gonna tell the father,or you gonna favour the child more than anyone else in the class. I just think its wrong
2006-11-30 07:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by MEHNAZ B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a sticky situation!
I can understand your feelings, this really is inappropriate for any teacher/parent.
If this really bothers you you can remove your child from this center.
request that he be moved into another room.
even go so far as talk to the teacher and tell her your concerns.
Be up front and honest as to why it bothers you.
Ultimately it is their decision to date or not but you can decide what's best for your child and any center or teacher worth their salt will see it that way.
2006-11-30 21:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so I examine that different comments and that i understand what you assert so a techniques as hectic approximately how the instructor would respond in the direction of your son if issues dont artwork out between the father and her. and that i'd desire to assert you have a factor. If he has in basic terms universal her for 2 months i think that that's only too quickly to allow his son to work out him along with her. It hasn't been long sufficient for him to appreciate if there will be an enduring relationship between them and then your son would be left asking questions - What happened to Ms. ???? why would not she come over to any extent further. adult males dont think of approximately those issues at cases. whilst me and my husband chop up up, we had an contract that we could no longer exhibit our son to all of us we've been relationship until we've been particular the course that the relationship replaced into going to take. Granted you cant are watching for the destiny, yet he has no longer universal her long sufficient to assert the place their relationship will finally end up. If I have been you i could tell the father that he needs to in basic terms see the instructor whilst your son isn't around. i desire this helps. **************************************... so which you will desire to provide us extra suggestion. How long have you ever been seperated out of your sons father? I in basic terms ask this because of the fact if it is been longer than a million-2 years you will desire to truly care much less approximately who he's relationship, no longer until you nevertheless have emotions for him and opt to be with him. that's complicated to enable circulate now and returned yet once you're nevertheless preserving directly to the desire which you adult males gets returned at the same time it is going to harm to work out this instructor once you %. your son up from college. in case you're over him - enable him stay is existence and you reside yours.
2016-10-13 09:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be rather awkward. You're no longer with him for a reason... so would he do the same thing to the teacher? I think the whole situation stinks and if they do break up...even more awkward! You probably can't do much about it but tell him how you feel!
2006-11-29 14:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by UGG 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is fine, but no sleepovers with the teacher until your son is out of preschool.
2006-11-29 11:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are trully worried about your son and it isn't mere jealous driving you t the wall then check if the teacher's conduct is acceptable within the school's regulations. there should be a way it can be stopped.
2006-11-29 21:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by ekduin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight up tell your ex that dating his sons teacher is disrespectful to his son maybe after your son has moved on from her class, but no way in hell,
2006-11-29 12:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by andrewslovelywife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a thing you can do about this situation.
2006-11-29 11:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋