ok here it is... I was with this girl for quiet a while. She was my very best friend and we could just talk about anything and were just so happy. We loved each other! We had a few problems to begin with but not with each other really just that i was here first kiss and first everything and i would let her go to explore beause i knew she needed to, i did to. We just could not be away from each other. We were pretty good kids and then we started getting sexually involved(my fault) well anyways her parents found out and we could not talk to each other for a like 3 months but we could still see each other since we lived close and it was so painful. We both were holding on really hard and even got back together but it was hidden well it was just hard and she wnet with another guy but she still loved me tons but then he dumped her and it just seems like she has tottally moved on her parents like me now so it could work but i dont think she does anymore!! :( it has been a couple months now
2006-11-29 10:53:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well we have talked a little bit about it and agreed that nothing could really work right now and i know that it cant. She said that she know we could really go somewhere later on down the road and what her and the other guy was completely different then what we had. I have been trying to date other girls and stuff i just havent really found someone i click with yet. I also stopped all the relationship stuff with her and just act like her frined and im happy around her. I guess i am just scared that if i completely move on then we will never get close again but if i dont then for sure nothing could happen later. It just kills me!!!
2006-11-29 12:23:51 · update #1
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2006-11-29 10:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Dude... all you can do at this point is let time continue to unfold whether you two will end up together. I know musch time has already gone by... but be patient. The only advice I could give you is for you to move on. I'm not saying to forget her. Just go on with the things you enjoy.... don't be afraid to date and make new friends. Let time determine whether her heart longs for you and whether your heart STILL longs for her. You can't force anyone to love you... all you can do is give them their space and see if they want you in the end. If she doesn't want you anymore, then that should show you that maybe her loyalty wasn't as deep as yours. Of course it hurts... love usually does... but better for this to happen now than later on in life. You sound young with a full life ahead of you. Don't worry... with time and age you will learn later on that the things that interested you now won't interest you later. You will find the happiness your looking for because just reading your post says something about your passion.
2006-11-29 19:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by ezlayedback 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry that happened to you..well i think that you and her should just talk about what you two should do..and you should also ask her..if you dont ask you'll never know how she feels..
even if she has moved on im sure that she still loves and cares about you...she just probably just wants to be friends until she figures out what she really wants to..
just give her sometime..
good luck...=D and keep your head up
2006-11-29 19:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by munchkins408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her - talk to her because that's the only way that you're going to know....you can do all the guessing you want but you won't know unless you talk to her about it. It's good you're on good terms with her parents but if it makes you feel better, tell her parents that you have good intentions and that you really want to be with their daughter.....takes alot of guts to do that as well. good luck talking to her!
2006-11-29 18:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by kristina807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg....that is sooooooo sad....my ex-bf decided since he is older than me n my first everything i should go explore...it sux i have cried so much!!! we r not sexually active but for a while my mom wouldnt let us tok cuz of our age difference!!! we hardly c eachother now******I LOVE HIM SOOOOOOO MUCH---- I no where u are coming from...it could work......go for it just dont give her parents a reason not to trust u guys 2gether
*hope i helped
2006-12-02 11:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by lemons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-30 07:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Perfect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did her parnets find out? Oh well, just get one of your friends to call her up and ask her or call one of her friend s and ask.
2006-11-29 18:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by MF22 Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well life goes on no it cant work now cause all is different . good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-11-29 18:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you wont she's moved on.
although you were each others first everything.
maybe she tried something better and liked it?
2006-11-29 18:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by kimee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋